Am I being paranoid?

[Anonymous]

Okay guys so my boyfriend and I been together for three years. Bumps in our second year but got through it anyways we used condoms in the beginning than we stopped somewhere in 2019 maybe 2020. I knew he had condoms in his car (because we always had sex in his car) I never payed any mind. I found them in the glove compartment and the expiration date was 2024, Trojan says their non spermicide lube with extra stuff subtract 5 years and you have an idea when they got it. Makes sense ok let it go. Today I found two condoms in his drawer expired, and added up to our time when we used them. I’m just worried about the ones in his car, one was used and it’s been in his car for months now not been used only one gone but I don’t remember getting those ones but we did use the same brand we did experiment with all kinds. He said they were from us no worries but I’m worrying. My boyfriend has been honest and hasn’t given me a reason to distrust him help!

[Kabluie]

If you're counting condoms, you're paranoid.

We don't use condoms but I'm sure there is a condom in a drawer or something in the house that I've forgotten is still around, probably expired too.

[Changiis07]

I mean if he hasn’t given you any reasons to not trust him then let it go

[Asker]

Does it sound weird?

[Changiis07]

Not if you’ve had sex in the car all the time

[Asker]

Yeah we still do. Just don’t remember getting those kind but we used all kind of Trojans but it was a while ago. The ones I found in his house expired and the ones in the car expire 2 years

[Anonymous]

What did he say when you asked him about it.

[Asker]

That they were when we used them. Only one was missing

[Opinion Owner]

And how did he explain the missing one?

[Asker]

That we used it.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, at this point all you can do is take him at his word. But keep your eye on the ball, and if he's straying, you will catch him.