Am I being sensitive about my boyfriend stopping mid way oral sex to rest, everytime he's eating me out?

My boyfriend eats me out roughly once a month, but always stops after just a few min to rest, but then he just lays in the bed and watches someting on his phone.
I'm feeling pretty self conscious because he looks completely uninterested in having sex or continuing oral sex after resting, and last time I caught him washing his tongue.
I'm so hygienic, I don't understand what's wrong. I've been taking 3 showers a day and making sure everything is clean and smelling good, but the issue keeps happening.
I need help, can someone tell me what's wrong?
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  • Stopping in the middle of sex to watch something on your phone... I'd take that more seriously than not being into giving/receiving oral. Maybe you got together and had that strong puppy love in the beginning, smoothing out the rough areas and making things just work out.

    Now you're in the relationship and you need to put in some work and pay attention to each other. Hell, even if I didn't like the oral I'd at least just use it to lead into something else, continue the foreplay and want to get laid.

    Sounds like the sex is a symptom and y'all are drifting apart. Try to work together on that. If you can't, like, both of you, find someone else who will. Every relationship has puppy love, that first few weeks or months where everything is perfect rainbows and sunshine. When it wears off that's when you figure out if things can really move forwards, and if you're both willing to.

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  • No, you are not. I think maybe he does not understand how oral sex works.
    It is critical to always build arousal during oral sex. Slowing down or pausing takes away momentum. I get neck, tongue and jaw strain sometimes during oral. If I need to rest, I go to a fingering routine to keep momentum going.
    A little TMI ahead. Since she is on her back, I insert two fingers into her vagina and go North of the cervix to the G-spot. At the same time, my thumb rests on her clitoris. Gentle thrusting is all I need to keep her motor running and I can finish her easily this way if I'm too sore to resume.
    Instead of being disappointed, Tell him how you feel and what he should do.

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  • He ain’t into eating pussy, just doing it for the sake, for some approval n shit because you asked for it, and shit is getting old, he can’t keep up, evaluate what is more important in this relationship, him or good fuck, you rarely get both. If it’s him, forego good sex, if it’s set, you need to bounce.


    Where you @ we help him eating that pussy till you scream?

  • Once a month?

  • Sometimes the jaw and tongue hurt and need a moment. I wouldn't expect someone giving head to continue if they were uncomfortable.

  • U understand hebmost likely just don't like the act of oral right and has nothing to do with u he just don't like the taste of pussy

  • A few minutes? Ridiculous. He's selfish. Is this really what you want in life?

  • He is selfish and only thinks of himself , and is treating you like a convenience , do yourself a favor a dump him , find someone that wants to please you like you please them trust me you are wasting your time with a guy like this

  • Well, whose idea is it for him to eat you out? Maybe he doesn’t really want to do it.

  • What's wrong is it's not me causing you much oral pleasure and giving you multiple orgasms orally.

  • Not a good sign, he should eat you to orgasm, if you want him to, and I'm sure you do. I always ate my girlfriend to orgasm, and she would tell me how to change lick patterns and exactly where to lick her clit.

  • Maybe he's averse to oral. Talk to him

  • Don't be sensitive and I'm sorry this is happening. It sounds like your boyfriend is immature about giving oral sex. You need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.

  • Have you considered the possibility that maybe the problem doesn't have anything to do with you, but instead that he just doesn't like eating pussy?

    It sounds really irritating that he stops giving you head mid way through, but don't overthink things. The guy really obviously doesn't enjoy eating pussy. Don't force something that isn't working; you'll never have enjoyable sex that way.

  • Oh god this guy needs to go. He should be worshipping your pussy and spending as much time as you want down there

  • After he takes a break does he continue?

  • Sorry, he's just not into eating pussy. And I doubt it has anything to do with you, because you keep yourself very clean.

  • that sucks. get a real man.

  • sounds like he isn't someone who likes eating pussy, especially if its only once a month.

  • Makes no sense to me. Kinda odd.

  • Three showers a day is way too much. Not only is it a waste of water but, it's actually bad for you not good. You should be taking one shower every OTHER day.

    I do think you have a right to be upset with him. Just be careful about how you go about this

    Just tell him that you're not ok with what he's doing and that he needs to keep going until you "orgasm". If he can't do this for you, you need to start thinking about a new guy

  • I don't know why you bother

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