Am I being to sexually aggressive?

Me and my husband were going through a rough patch and it's for the most part sorted out. Thing is now, I'm in this phase where I literally want to pounce on him all the time. I give him oral as much as possible even to the point where he told me to dial back a little because he was getting sore. I even want to put my finger up his ass but he got silent when I brought it up. I would screw him every second I got and when I smell his natural scent on the bed, it drives me crazy. I'm literally on him like a dung beetle on a cow patty. Sorry, just love the dude and find him sexy. If I cut back on trying to initiate, will he be more initiating?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Relax, seduce, provide sufficient time and impetus for him to respond. Be confident he will. Make sure he knows how much you love and respect him.

    Make him a nice meal, tell him how much you care for him, and fuck his brains out. That's how you keep a man.

  • Okay. Now this is an INTERESTING situation. What do you want him to do, in your best fantasies?

Most Helpful Girls

  • It sounds like there's issues to sort out before you go at him sexually. Once you both resolve the problem then you both can move on to a healthy sexual intimacy that both of you will enjoy and not one. Hope all works out between you both. Have a good day. 🍁🕊

    • Thanks for the MHO

  • If you play more hard to get maybe he would be more initiating

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  • If he's asking you to dial back, then I would guess so, it's hard for me to see what the actual problem is. He seems like he's ok to let you know if it's too much

  • What happened in your relationship to cause this? Did someone cheat? Have a kid? Move towns? Someone die?
    Maybe he is hurt, stressed, angry, resentful, etc.
    You may think the rough patch is sorted out. Does he?

  • i will like such a girl

  • Sounds like you need a spanking and a orgasm torturing session

  • He should love all the attention but remember a mans greatest sex organ is his mind so work on exciting him there

  • Only he can answer. But maybe dial it back a little and make him miss you.

  • Keep going!
    Tie him to the bed and gag him then he can't object when you start to finger his anus. He won't object for long!

  • Youve probably just exceeded his sex drive or your on a different freak level than him he might never catch up yo you so get yourself a toy if you love him masturbation will help you a lot

  • He may, but don't expect it to star immediately

  • It’s difficult because he isn’t telling you much on what he wants in sex

  • I'd rather be in his situation a 100 times over, than mine. Too much sex shouldn't be a problem. I mean you do need rest sonetimes lol

  • It's better to give him some time if he gets sore. Otherwise this may lead to ED or other erectile tissue (corpus cavernosum) complications.

    The 2 partners in a couple may have different level of libido or sexual wants. You might encourage him to do more or you must masturbate when he's too sore.
    Its good that you asked him of his preferences before actually doing.

    A medical student here by the way

  • Not your fault he can't handle you 😂😂😂😂😂