Am I bisexual or is this normal?

Is it normal for me to think women are beautiful and attractive?
I will always catch myself staring to admire a woman’s figure, or hair etc in public. The idea of sleeping with a woman also appeals to me.

I’m also attracted to men by the way.

Am I bisexual or is it normal to be curious about someone from the same sex as you?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Maybe bisexual... but... I personally love bisexual women. If you have Netflix, you MUST SEE "Women, and Sometimes Men" it is a very entertaining film about a woman much like you describe yourself. The woman loves her boyfriend, but she also loves women, because "They are soft, smooth, lovely to touch, and they have the same parts" .
    The film would really appeal to you and you would see that your feelings are not AT ALL strange or abnormal. I look at attractive men, but not in a sexual way, only wishing I had some of their features or something that attracts women.
    You sound very self assured, and that is a very good way to feel about your sexuality. Enjoy you youth and the sex drive you have and feel.

    BAP

  • Completely normal. And who cares whether you are bisexual? If you enter relationships with men and women then you are. So what? You don’t have to decide whether you are bisexual. You only have to decide whether or not you want a relationship with particular people.

    • That’s a very good take!

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  • Your definitely not bi sexual or homosexual just because you watch basketball doesn’t make you a basketball player! You would of had to participated in joining a team right? For one you never even tried anything with another girl as you wrote! Then you would have to desire to do it again! But your still not bisexual even then! At this point you simple had explode a sexual encounter with the same sex! Now if you decided to have relationship with both sexes then you can say your bisexual. But at any point you can chose to be with one or the other as a life partner. This would determine your sexuality there by voiding previous sexual identities. Hope this help

  • I was like you. I think it's subjective to your environment and feelings towards opposite sex. Not so much a 'liking' of women if you know what I mean.

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  • They say that total, 100% heterosexuals are rare. I've no idea if that's true, but it stands to reason that there's a scale between absolute heterosexuality and 50/50 bisexuality. If that's true, you probably fit in somewhere along the line. I wouldn't worry too much about the precise position and what it's called- just be yourself, and like what you like.

  • Would you be interested in having a 3 way with a man and a woman? If yes then probably very much so bisexual.

    • Very interested

    • Then yeah you're probably bisexual. Nothing really unique XD. But I guess some neat search soul searching 😉

  • It’s normal, I know plenty straight girls that comment on how lovely another girl looks, how nice her boobs are etc.

    also nothing at all wrong being bisexual or even thinking you maybe, simply zero issue.

    just chill and enjoy life

  • The idea of sleeping with a woman appealing to you suggests you are bisexual.

  • Bi-sexual is just a labelIf you want to label it you're likely bi-curious or straight but like a good fantasy. If you act out on it then you're "experimenting" or "bi-sexual" or someone that wants to feel good.

  • What’s abnormal about bisexuality?

    • Nothing wrong with it at all which is why I’m asking this Q

    • Either way, don’t worry about labels. Just worry about enjoying what you enjoy.

    • Nice take... I like that

  • Very normal

    In fact, pheromones released by females affect both males and females in very similar ways.

  • Yeah me 2 I used to worry also

  • You are bi curious , you ard still exploring your sexuality

  • If you have felt arousal.. Seeing naked female body...
    Just the same way you feel for men...

    Then you are bisexual!.

    Like I feel respectful to men for being strong and not whining I see that appeal but I don't feel it...
    I don't feel arousal for men.. That means I am straight

  • It can be, you might even be pansexual as well, where anyone you like can interest you without regard to gender.

  • That's funny, I do the exact same thing and I don't consider myself terribly bi-sexual

  • It’s perfectly normal. I am a lesbian of my friends are attracted to women too

    • Feel free to message me to discuss further

  • Liking the idea of sleeping with the same sex is not normal

  • admiring and attracted is different

  • I think you're bi curious and you should be open to experimenting.

  • I perfectly normal to be curious about your same sex and it ok if you want to experiment with a girl if you like. Also if you become bisexual that fine too. The only way that you are bi if you have sex with both sexs regularly.

  • It's normal for women! But for me as a men is not lol

  • Normal I am exactly like that

  • yeah i would say bisexual

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