Am I crazy if I fantasize about being kidnapped?

And feeling helpless. Bandage, hand cuffs and shit. I try to get out of his hands but can't. Then I develop feelings for him. It's not a sexual fantasy more so like I became his personal little doll. But no sex is included. He dresses me up. Makes me eat (I have eating problems). And generally takes care of me. I can't leave the house unless with him.

It's just a fantasy that turns me on. In real life I'm the opposite of this. But it feels so wrong.. Or I don't know if it is.

Crazy is an understatement.
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  • Might represent an inner craving of not being in control that you push away. Which is not weird at all. I think everybody needs that, moments at which someone else takes care of them, moments at which they re not the ones who re responsible. The fact that this fantasy is such a big part of you combined with the eating problems make me think that you re in a situation in which you try to grab control in anyway you can but there are factors that don't allow you that. On the other hand there s is noone, or it feels like there is noone who shows interest in you. Noone who takes the responsibility from your shoulders.

    • Of course thats just a theory, I m only comparing your patterns to patterns I ve seen before. So i can be wrong, tell me if I am.

  • No you like the idea of Stockholm syndrome nothing wrong with that. The fact you identify that it's wrong/weird is good.

    I've got some stuff similar that I acknowledge is bad so because I'm already there I know never to act upon it unless concent is given.

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  • Is this truly just a fantasy or something you'd like to act out in a role play like scenario? If the latter then it's a kink! Fantasy and even Kinks are nothing to be ashamed of.

    Just be very careful in wanting to explore anything that could potentially go wrong , unless with a non-judgmental and VERY trusted partner/play or using a pro Dom. That way you eliminate the risk of becoming potentially traumatised and/or the male counterpart getting into any trouble.

    These things are all very doable, just play safe and have fun!

  • It’s a bit weird, but it’s just a fantasy. There’s no need to worry.

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  • I'm thinking it's just a fetish, and I know that this one is rare but known. Sort of like a foot fetish, it's normal.

    • I'd hardly call it rare.

  • That's mad crazy

  • You sound like you want to be a "little"

  • quite common

  • I secretly have a rape fantasy too which involves being kidnapped and taken by force and stuff so it's cool

  • Every one would have his/her fantasies... it's completely if no one gets hurt.

  • That is a very common fantasy.
    It is about control and the loss of it, so you wouldn't feel guilty about what was being done to you as you would not have a choice.

  • There are a lot of women with a consensual non consent fantasies and those may or may not involve sex.

  • You'd be suprised with how many women have that kink.

    You can actually hire someone to do this to you, legally. They'll kidnap you at a random time and tie you up and all that.

    • It's also safe, not in any real danger.

    • i watched a movie with such scenario

  • Sexuality without responsibility for you: the dominating person takes over the responsibility for your sexual craving.

  • That actually makes you a fairly normal woman. Many women have fantasies like that. Sort of a consensual rape fantasy

  • We all have fantasies sexual and non sexual its all good

  • Did you know this is how they say Ancient Rome started?

    Look up the RAPE OF THE SABINE WOMEN

  • It’s a pretty normal fantasy. No one would want that to happen in real life, but in your fantasy life you are safe and can explore whatever dark desires turn you on.

  • It’s a domination fantasy

  • Yeah a little bit

  • Given that you have what's called the "CNC" Kink! NO!

  • It's a normal fantasy, I think about the samething but its a friend of mine, I am very sexually attracted to her but it will never happen. It's not against the law to think about things though. ;)

  • Not crazy, apparently normal according to the poll, too. Fantasy is not reality.

  • You are crazy.