Am I crazy lol?

I have a huge crush on my professor and have noticed over the last 3 years that I have a thing for middle aged white men. Should I make a move and tell him or keep it a fantasy? Also do you think an actual relationship could work with older guys or should I just keep it as a casual hookups?
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  • A relationship with an older guy could work, but definitely NOT your professor. He's got a duty of care over you as a student, and even if it's not actually illegal in your jurisdiction, it may well risk his job. Sometimes even the suggestion of impropriety is risky, so even if he rejects your advances could get in trouble.

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  • I'll second the opinion of "Wait till you're done with his class!"
    Further, make sure you won't have him again till you graduate!

    This isn't so much for your grades and reputation as it is for his career and respecting him!

    If it's real, it will continue after you're his student.

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  • Any professor who values his job would not carry on with a student. This is not an age issue. It's a professional ethics issue that could potentially get him fired.

    Keep it a fantasy where it can be as perfect as you want.

    • Even at a college? I mean we are both adults...

    • yup he is being politically correct

    • if you are both 18.. it's fine no one can say anything

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  • No its normal, lots of people have a crush on an older person at some stage of their life. So you're not crazy

  • Not crazy. But going for it with him could def have its complications. Has he given you and sign he may be into you too?

    • I think he feels similar but im not sure

    • If you think the risk and possible fallout is worth the possible payoff then I say go for it. He may have the same fantasy but may not be willing to act on it due to the consequences

  • He's not allowed to do anything with his students so maybe after youve left you could let him know you're up for hookups 😁 I think it's so dirty to find really old men attractive ugh

  • He can’t get involved with a student, it could mean his career. Tell him when he’s no longer your professor. You will have to make the first move. Older men of any sense don’t hit on much younger women.

  • Yah, you're crazy beautiful!

  • Don't make a move, he will almost definitely not be allowed to date you and all it will do is serve to make you feel rejected

  • While you probably can get some interest from middle aged white man I’d avoid dating your actual professors as an undergrad.

  • Isn't there restrictions on professor-student relations? You hear of such scandals all the time. Why not find a guy you're own age? This would definitely lead to trouble.

  • keep it a fantasy cause if it goes south that might mess up your face in his class and would make shit awkward, unlesa you wanna take the risk id say keep it a fantasy, if you wanna flip the coin then whatever floats your boat

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