A relationship with an older guy could work, but definitely NOT your professor. He's got a duty of care over you as a student, and even if it's not actually illegal in your jurisdiction, it may well risk his job. Sometimes even the suggestion of impropriety is risky, so even if he rejects your advances could get in trouble.
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I'll second the opinion of "Wait till you're done with his class!"
Further, make sure you won't have him again till you graduate!
This isn't so much for your grades and reputation as it is for his career and respecting him!
If it's real, it will continue after you're his student.0 0 0 0
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(29)Any professor who values his job would not carry on with a student. This is not an age issue. It's a professional ethics issue that could potentially get him fired.
Keep it a fantasy where it can be as perfect as you want.1 2 0 0Even at a college? I mean we are both adults...
yup he is being politically correct
if you are both 18.. it's fine no one can say anything
No its normal, lots of people have a crush on an older person at some stage of their life. So you're not crazy
1 0 0 0Not crazy. But going for it with him could def have its complications. Has he given you and sign he may be into you too?
0 0 0 0I think he feels similar but im not sure
If you think the risk and possible fallout is worth the possible payoff then I say go for it. He may have the same fantasy but may not be willing to act on it due to the consequences
He's not allowed to do anything with his students so maybe after youve left you could let him know you're up for hookups 😁 I think it's so dirty to find really old men attractive ugh
0 0 1 0He can’t get involved with a student, it could mean his career. Tell him when he’s no longer your professor. You will have to make the first move. Older men of any sense don’t hit on much younger women.
0 0 0 0Yah, you're crazy beautiful!
2 0 0 1Don't make a move, he will almost definitely not be allowed to date you and all it will do is serve to make you feel rejected
0 0 0 0While you probably can get some interest from middle aged white man I’d avoid dating your actual professors as an undergrad.
0 0 0 0Isn't there restrictions on professor-student relations? You hear of such scandals all the time. Why not find a guy you're own age? This would definitely lead to trouble.
0 0 0 0keep it a fantasy cause if it goes south that might mess up your face in his class and would make shit awkward, unlesa you wanna take the risk id say keep it a fantasy, if you wanna flip the coin then whatever floats your boat
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