Am I crazy to be fascinated with ladyboys?

While my first sexual relationship was with a boy my age (we were both 11 or 12), I've always considered myself straight since losing my virginity to my first girlfriend at the age 15. But in my later life, I've been celibate and fascinated with ladyboys. And I don't meant to be disrespectful by using that term, but specifically young men who have chosen (or were born to) be girls and appear to be girls, or young ladies, while retaining their male genitalia. The ones I've seen in porn are in many cases even more beautiful than most women, and I fantasize about being with one. I even plan to visit Thailand at some point in an attempt to live out this fantasy. Am I crazy?
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  • Femboys is the term you're looking for.

    And heck no, you're not crazy. Femboys are hot. I know many bi and gay men into femboys, and even some straight men who like how they look but aren't interested because straight.

    Explore! Take time to explore yourself and your attractions, and don't worry about a label until you're ready to claim one or identify. Just be you.

Most Helpful Guys

  • That's fine, I get what you mean, nothing wrong with it.

    I'm only really attracted to women visually, because you can tell the different between them and men generally, but I do think the idea of a female aesthetic with a dick sounds hot too, but I think it'd mostly due to the fact that I'm into sexually dominant woman, so if a woman is basically pounding away, then it symbolizes dominance.

  • Probably a kink that has arisen from not being with a girl for a while. Also likely that you are actually bisexual and not straight at all, but a ladyboy or probably more accurately a femboy is your preferred male partner.

Most Helpful Girl

  • So you're probably gay or bisexual. Which is fine. But you aren't straight which again is fine

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  • I think def taboo but long as it's safe and consensual. Def do what u want. But I can also see being a secret bc people judge.

  • You are not "crazy" but you are also not heterosexual.

  • Sounds like you're maybe bisexual. I've been to Thailand a few times, it's a nice place to visit even if you're not looking for anything in particular.

  • As long as you're both consenting adults, you're not crazy. You do you. Too many people miss out on pleasures in life worried about it being "normal" or not. Be a decent person to everyone and enjoy yourself.

  • I like ladyboys/transgenders. The ‘fascination’ is multi-faceted, but to generalize, I believe it's distilled down to the fact that you’re/they’re/I’m having a straight relationship with gay sex. Oftentimes, it’s totally discreet when the ladyboy is passable as a woman (very hot).

    No, I don’t think it’s crazy, but it’s obviously not normal. After all, it is not ‘normal’ to change one’s gender, never has been, probably never will be. Straight AND gay people find it disgusting/perverted/weird. Hell, I personally find it freaky, but that is part of the attraction.

    At the end of it all, they and we are human beings. If you find one (s) you’re compatible with, it’s awesome and hot... in every way possible.

  • Not at all 😏😏

  • Yeah

  • Imagine how the world would be if man was created the same as a woman except with a cock

  • Possibly a bad idea, it sounds like too much trouble or potential guilt in the long run.

  • Its perfectly fine. They do tend to look incredibly feminine and take great care of themselves.

  • Whatever floats your goat.

  • Sounds like you’ve developed a fetish from being celibate and looking at too much porn. If that’s what you want to do nothings stopping you. But it isn’t normal.

  • That is crazy