Am I doomed to be with guys that only wants to have rough sex with me?

My ex husband was a total sadist and he made me live in hell especially during sex. I had scary nightmares because of it and now my boyfriend. He was a good guy until recently he started having rough crazy wild sex and wants to control me on bed. My boyfriend isn’t sadist but he likes wild rough sex that makes me crazy sometimes. Is it my bad luck or there’s something that makes them treat me that way suddenly.
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  • It sounds like you are meeting the wrong kind of guys?

  • Sorry but you need a nigga to have fun and enjoy life especially sex and the thrill if it... Im a adrenaline rush seeker so I always look to fulfill to the highest levels of enjoyment whats better than dat?

  • If your not comfortable with it rough you should tell him

  • Sadly it seems that you only attract doms.

  • Coincidence. But tell them if you aren't into it. They should have respect for you and what you want, if they don't, then they don't respect you in general and you shouldn't be with anyone that doesn't respect you.

  • Most surveys I’ve seen suggest there are more women then men into rough sex. Still I’d guess you’ve either had bad luck or are picking guys who are that way.

    • I believe its bad luck

  • Your pussy must be so sore to complain. Tell him to ease up. If he's a Good Guy then he will listen.

    • Hopefully

  • The best way is tell him that you don't like this, this is just their lust and fantasies which he is completing with you. How can someone become rough with a beautiful girl like you, if i was on his place, i will not do that at any cost. Sex is all about love and enjoyment not about punishment or pain.

    • I hear that some guys can go crazy on some girls for some reason but I don’t get it. I am very feminine in bed but that can’t be why they’re going crazy on me