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Am I doomed to have sexless, kissless life?

I find saliva disgusting. I know people can kiss without tongues but there will be saliva still. I have tried watching porn just to check if I'm ok with it but nope it just disgusts me. Just thinking of all that saliva being licked on different parts of my body or even holding my own saliva due to bj gives me shivers. I don't know how I'm to find a partner who's not into sex. All the people I like I've never even thought of being intimate with because of the thought of saliva exchange. Help :( I don't want to be like this.
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  • Well it sure unusual to hear about a girl who don't like kissing, usually girls like kissing more than guys, after all girls tend to be more emotional than guys, while guys tend to be more sexual than girls. You said that you don't like kisses and bj, you didn't said anything about PIV AKA the main event. You might find a guy who okay with no kisses and no bj, but you highly unlikely to find a guy who would give up on PIV, so it you have problem with PIV then yes you doomed to stay single for life. Actually there is some girls who don't give bj, it's not uncommon among conservative girls, and you don't need kisses and bj to have children. :)

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/8Mk2VsysVzo

    • I mean "so if you have problem with PIV then yes you doomed to stay single for life".

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  • There are so many different ways to go about this there are so many different ways to kiss I would love to show you how you I could put my bottom with in between your two lips lift your top lip up tracking across your cheek down your chin to your neck back up your chin and touch your lips so very slow and soft you wouldn't even think about saliva or anything like that you would never feel any saliva so you have never kissed anybody before I swear I wish I lived next door to you or something I could stay here come here check this out but there's are there many many ways to do it if you want I can tell you send me a message I mean there's no reason for you to go to this

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  • You have every right not to like things You can kiis without saliva with just lips joining and don't let it be to long Explain to the other person how you feel Never do something your not happy doing If they don't understand then they will not respect you

    • What do you feel has lead to the isue

  • Yeah you are if its a fear you can't get over

  • What kind of porn have you been watching that saliva is so prevalent that it's being licked off of people like it's water running from a tap?

  • I think I should ask myself that question even Mee to same no kiss no sex

  • Interesting, i would really like to ask you some questions if you dont mind. My wife is the same way. Se never use to be that way but as time goes by it seems like it gets worse about it to where she thinks about her own saliva makes her gag when she's even eating food. Feel free to send me a PM if you would like.

    • oh I am fine with my own saliva in my own mouth. It's more when other people's saliva touches the rest of my body

    • My wife won't kiss me or even let me go down on her.

  • You could date an asexual.
    Either that or find a way to overcome your phobia. And do you think there is any possibility that you are asexual?
    I find saliva to be gross too, but my arousal towards sex overides that.

  • You need a shrink. Seriously. This is just not normal. And yes, what is the point of a romantic relationship where there's no sex or romance? Just get a cat.

    It's like telling a shark he can't eat other fish.

    • Phobias are plenty normal thank you very much. Maybe I'm just a specific germaphobe or something. You can have romance without sex though? Are you saying people who cannot literally have sex due to some medical problem don't deserve to be in a relationship because there is no point to it?

    • Uh, while they maybe seem common, they're not NORMAL. Irrational fears and phobias are just that, IRRATIONAL. A psychiatrist can help you sort through feelings and thoughts and determine what's real and what is just made up. And yes, I'm here to tell you that a romantic relationship without sex just isn't. There would be no point to, that is right. You have some learning to do about men - they are driven by testosterone - some 15-25 times ass much as you. The ONLY reason they have any interest in a woman is for sex, otherwise they wouldn't bother. I mean, what IS the point? To chat and go shoe-shopping? RELATE to each other? Those are girl-things that guys put up to get pussy. Seriously, get a referral from your regular doctor. It could be a game-changer for your life. Otherwise you are destined for a life of victimhood and self loathing.

  • Welp to bad spit is a part of your body so you shall be forever cruse to be disgusted by spit but there's a cure, ignore the spit

  • If you kiss without opening your mouth there isn't really saliva exchange. If you just stick to fingering, handjobs, and lube , you can probably avoid saliva exchange altogether.

  • Try to get some counseling.

  • You will be live sexless life

  • Humans are gross and unsanitary, we have about 100 trillion microbes all over us. That is the nature of life on earth it is everywhere and very diverse. Embrace the microbes. One way to help take some edge off the anxiety is a good old alcoholic beverage. I loved the spit of my ex you can literally taste the kisses I think it is something very primal in us humans when we find a lover, I promise you will survive a kiss

    • Your first sentence isn't helping me X) maybe I am a specific germaphobe. I think I can manage if were' in a tub of water but I think that is pretty bad for me since it'll ruin my ph

    • Kisses and lips are great and intimate when they kiss your body dont ruin the experience you can't get dirty? Play in the garden? Scuff up you knee playing sports? Sweating on a hot day? Get dirty. Just take a bath after they kiss you all over 😌

  • Its fine sweetheart i would definitely date you and have plenty of sex with you daily and you wouldn't have to give me bjs. Theirs plenty of people just like you keep searching

    • And i won't lic k you or have you lick me

  • You are not take your time to decide what us bestfor you, no need for rush.

  • There are 10 billion bacteria in saliva, and 600 different species... I don't blame you... You sound like an asexual. That would all change if you were opposite the big boner of the right guy though.

  • Don't think about it. It sorts itself out. Overthinking can be fatal.
    Logically, sex is (almost) violent and doesn't make sense.
    But once you've been through it, you'll probably realise how people enjoy it.
    As someone said, sex is dirty ONLY when it is done right :-)
    I'm the opposite of you. I want to taste my partner's saliva, to swallow it... to make her part of me :-)

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