Am I gay? very confused?

I’m getting super turned on by one of my female friend suddenly I never felt this way before with any female I was completely man women but now I only dream about my friend and I spend more time with her. Am I gay? We did kiss and that moment was omg but we stopped our self I want to go full with her
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  • Confused, as homosexuality grew i started studying it, talked to some lesbians without judging them obviously, and I believe homosexuality comes from a place of rejection and pain, they go through so much pain and sufferment with the opposite gender so they find comfort in the same gender, because you were born liking men, that doesn't just go away, you were born with it, the thing is when you grow emotional attachment, the love and care for the other thing goes away so the more people act on the homosexual temptations, they will start to stop caring about the other gender and it will slowly diminish, to the point they no longer consider themselves straight and I'm sure it's the same when you switch the genders, some people are stronger mentally then others so it's why I'm thinking not everyone gets these emotions I'm also spiritual so I believe that plays a part as well, I believe this theory is worth looking at tho tbh because we don't know enough about it besides the facts that it's spreading like a plague let's be honest, look at my country bro.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Who cares? Why question yourself? I love women that love women. My 'friend' who is an audiologist, told me she would 'fight me' for Emily Blunt, after I told her I loved the British actress. I would have loved to see her eat Emily Blunt, and would have kissed her on the mouth afterward.

    Relax. You only go around one time. Do what you wish, but don't hurt yourself in the process.

    Eat out that girl you are attracted to and let her eat you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You don’t need a label, just enjoy following up from that kiss ….

    • umm absulotly need a label to figure out ones course in life. Can you imagine getting married and then saying ohhh hey nvm I not attracted to guys anymore , bye now. like that is jsut insane now.

  • I was in my late 30, when I found I like a woman as well

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  • Who knows. Sounds like if you were interested in men for most of your life you might actually be the unicorn bisexual. Or you might simply be repressed.

    I suggest you find a counselor to talk these feelings over with. And don't go lurching at your female friend if you think or know she's straight. That could be a disaster in itself.

    If this person is a platonic friend, explore your sexuality with someone else, or a gay support group of women while discussing the topic with your counselor.

    See where your feelings take you in a SAFE venue. Leave your friend out of it. Remember she's your friend, not a sex object. Good luck.

  • You are at least bi curious, no shame in that.

    • No that’s true no shame but after all these years how come my bi side came out

    • Who knows, sexuality is much more fluid than people like to pretend.

  • Sounds like fun! If the feeling is mutual go for it and enjoy your feelings. I have had the same kind of experience with a buddy of mine. We didn’t even think about bi or gay labels, we just enjoyed each other

  • Don't rush things... sure you could be gay or bi... it is no big deal. Life is sort so enjoy who you are. Do you think of guys or girls when you masturbate?

    • It is so common for women to be turned on by women that people think female bisexuality is heterosexuality

  • Don't worry about it. Date whoever you like who will date you. You only have to decide one person at a time. If you find someone attractive, ask them out.

  • You could be or bi.

  • Yes you are bi and it is normal we take time to find ourself of other side.

  • Only one way to find out lol

    • How?

  • probably bi curious. thats what they used to call that

    • It’s what we still call it.

    • @Quackthulu2 cool. i dunno people keep coming up with new terms. don't know whats still used or not

  • I don't think you're gay. But I've heard girls tell me that they've been attracted to other girls. Some really straight girls have been known to be turned on by other women's breasts. It's common. Enjoy your erection.

  • is the relationship you have with the girl do you want love with this person or is just lust? do you have romance with men or is it just lust?

  • imho you not gay, you just connected at a soul frequency with someone who has a female body,,,

  • Have you found an answer

  • Do u get turned on or masturbate watching lesbian porn?

  • Hey dm me I'll explain

  • What to be confused about? You are a woman so it should be clear what you are. BISEXUAL

  • You are either bi or gay, depending on how you feel about men.

  • You’re bicurious and possibly bisexual. If you’re attracted to her, pursue a relationship and find out. You like who you like.

  • I think you're bisexual. Don't worry about it, just go with your feelings.

    • We both want to because we feel the tension building up