Sexual Relationships 
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So basically this woman I am dating, we have been together for 4 years, she's 5 years younger than me, I'm 36, she's 31. Has decided arbitrarily to completely stop having sex with me. Like full on, no sex period.. I'm also not permitted to masturbate apparently, as she sees masturbation as cheating. This is coming from the leaked court docs about roe v wade and the Supreme Court possibly overturning it. She says that until they make the correct decision there will be no more sex, period. Now I'm very much pro choice, as is she.. But I think making me suffer because of politics is just stupid. I talked with her about it, she said because I'm male it's my fault.
I politely yet firmly advised her she had 48 hours to move out of my home. That I was done with her if she was going to make that choice. I said because I could not and would not force sex on her nor would I try to change her mind about her choice to use me in her protest, that i simply could not have her in my life any more. She used the old argument "but I don't owe you sex". I agreed and said "of course not, but I also don't owe you the use of my money, my car, or my home either"
She left but called me sexist, and a ton of other names. I feel like I dodged a bullet..
Am I in the wrong here for standing my ground when it comes to sex in our relationship and kicking her out?
Am I in the wrong here, kicking my girlfriend out because she's chosen to cut me off from sex due to politics?
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5 26Maybe she needs a girlfriend not a boyfriend...
Nope. She is wrong.
It's crazy how she tried to blame you for what the Supreme court does. You were right, let her screw with someone else.
lol (laughing because it blows my mind sometimes what and how strongly people believe in some things, to the point that they actually get into arguments and fight about it - to me, ridiculous). Bottom line, you are not a match and ending it is definitely the right thing. The only thing I'd have maybe done (depending on her and her circumstances) is given her a bit more time to move out and find a place, but if she's got somewhere then yeah, absolutely did the right thing. Probably shouldn't have moved in with you to begin with (too soon?). Especially if you're only dating. Advice, don't repeat that mistake again.
No you avoided a cancerous liberal, you're absolutely correct in your actions now just imagine losing half of everything you've got in a divorce and be happy you didn't get that far
I was talking to a guy on here and told him that women in Asia aren't able to weaponize sex, because it doesn't work. Only men from the West tolerate these types of games.
Well I'm glad I chose not to tolerate it
She can disagree with you on politics or anything, and you can debate it. But to use sex as a weapon is beyond stupid. She's about to learn that lesson, but she won't learn anything. She will just judge you like the moron on this post that called you a jackass. What an idiot. I see this all the time in marriages. Bob forgets their anniversary, so Sally goes on a sex strike. Then Sally wants to go dancing with Bob, and he goes on a dancing strike. This continues until you just become two cardboard cut-outs under the same roof. I talked to a French chef, and he said when he was a kid, his dad had a fuck buddy, and his mom had two. This was never kept a secret, and I guess it was a common thing. He said that he and his siblings had a great childhood, and their parents never fought. He said that parents were there to raise kids, manage the household, and work out the finances. Sex was something that was farmed out to a third party. I am convinced this is really the way to go. I know it sounds horrible, but just look at the shit you had to deal with. Maybe you should have said: “Honey, I totally understand why you don’t want to have sex with me, and it would be wrong of me to try and change your mind. Therefore I’ve placed an ad on Tinder, and I’m going to make sure you aren’t burdened by this task.”
Lol right!!
you're a jackass does that answer your question
Ok leftist..
In comes the 36 to 45 year old man with man boobs and low testosterone lmao
Lol exactly. Can't for the life of me understand how I'm a leftist when she told me I was not even permitted to masturbate..
I don't understand where either of you two lean politically
Mostly in the middle, and the ex is obviously an ultra leftist.
Damn, sucks
Agreed. Like I never told her who I voted for because I'm pretty sure she'd have tried to kill me, looking back on her behavior..
Well I'm seriously farrrrrr right but I don't think holding sex is something a healthy relationship should consist of at all, all cause of political butthurt at least, that just seems stupid
Agreed