Am I in the wrong?

[Iovemyopnions]

So my friends with benefits have hooked up a couple of times. The last time he came over, we had sex and after we had a mini conversation. a question in my head popped up to ask him if he was hooking up with any other females without condoms since we have unprotected sex. he said “yeah i am but i always shower after and besides i like go raw dog. i don’t like using condoms”. Somewhere in me, i felt disgusted because what if he was hooking up with a female with an std and give it to me one day. i would’ve thought that i was the only female he was having unprotected sex with but that wasn’t the case. what should i do in this situation?

[Kabluie]

yeah, I have unprotected sex with two partners but our generally agreement is if there is a hookup with anyone should use a condom until you know their testing/regimen. Generally should raise the frequency of STI testing, and communicate it. Some are lax in this area. I got tested last month but generally go with the 3-6 month time frame depending on how active.

[mrmonogamous]

Drop him hard and fast. Find yourself someone you want a monogamous and loving relationship with. If it doesn’t happen right away, keep looking. Nice guys are out there (sorry, I’m taken). That last line was intentional - nice guys don’t cheat.

[Iovemyopnions]

he even told me that there is another girl he has unprotected sex with occasionally too so that threw me off

[PositiveFlight]

Isn’t this a good enough reason alone aside from the hundreds of other reasons to not do friends with benefits? Sex is the result of true love and respect. It’s the ultimate reward for commitment and marriage.

[Fireguy17]

he either wraps that rascal or he will be taking care of business by himself.
It is not worth the risk that you are taking.
It's that old adage, you are now sleeping with everyone that he is sleeping with.
No thanks.

[peterrezeeek]

stop sexting with him.
check up ur self.

[justFriend]

Let this be a lesson to you!

[CharlieDMX]

The only thing you did wrong was not asking him sooner. As a general rule you do not have unprotected sex if you are having multiple partners because of what you already described.

Either you ask him to wear one when having sex with him or you stop having sex with him at all. And if you worry about your health, second choice is the best one

[NYlatefun]

You should ask him to wear a condom with you and maybe get tested?

[MasterKS]

you served him raw without making sure, thats stupid!

[Anonymous]

Friends with benefits is really just a super spreader event.

It's why being in a committed relationship is what people usually want. I mean how can you even suck his dick when it was just in some random skank's ass the night before?