Am I just sex to him? I think he has a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing this guy for 10 months. The longest I’ve ever actually seen someone for. We have really good sex and for the past 10 months he keeps putting of dates and he will just invite me to his, he drives but he makes me catch a cab. We have sex then I leave the next day. Although I’m catching feelings, it’s been 10 months and I’m not suprised that I am. We speak everyday. I know he finds me very attractive. Although he’s 29 with 2 kids and I’m 20 but 21 soon.

I keep seeing women’s stuff in his house. Razors, blonde hair products and stuff. He’s starting to take a day to reply and he says he’s busy but he NEVER takes this long. I say to him do u wanna end this but he’s adamant on still speaking to me.

i was meant to see him yesterday and he didn’t reply so I drove by his house ( I know this was pyscho ) and I saw his baby mamas car there? I also saw his light on and he kept saying yesterday ‘can I come to you you can’t come round mine’ someone told me yesterday that they live together?

my point across this question is here is am I just sex? Does he not want anything with me, why would he speak to me everyday if he didn’t? He even buys me gifts sometimes? I’ve started to notice a cycle that when it’s the days he’s going to pick up the kids from hers he’s really distant with me. I don’t know what to do? I really like him?

[Paulalove98]

Yeah it doesn’t sound like he wants anything serious with you sorry. Looks like he’s still hooked on his baby mama too. That’s why I can’t date or have a relationship with a guy who already has a kids even having fun with one. That’s a big no for me. I like kids but I want my own with someone one day, no baby mama drama lol.

[boggboss]

Clearly u are just sex he talks daily to keep u happy so he can get that sex

[Vendela]

This ☝️☝️☝️

[Dargil]

Would you want that done to you?

[Asker]

What done to me?

[Dargil]

Your boyfriend doing that to you.

[Luckycharms12]

Ya sounds like he has girlfriend