I had a friends with benefits 2 years ago. I had feelings for him. It didn't work out we cut contact. I still thinking about him to masturbate. I feel like a loser. Am I desperate?
No, not a loser. Nothing wrong with thinking of a good moment from the past when you need to take things into your own hands. But you are probably overdue for moving on and focusing more on building a future. If you get too stuck in the past, then you'll never achieve the future you'd hope to have.
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Most Helpful Girls
No no girl your so strong! You had an amazing connection and you miss it!
In time you will get another for now just embrace those desires! What ever you need during your time
With my being a mistress a lot of customers want me to be someone they knew or met! Who they want to be with but can't!
For my ladies often it is a old friends with benefits or friend they crushed on for years but he rejected them!
1 2 0 0I still think of guys I was with when I masturbate I think we all do.
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Most Helpful Guy
Maybe you like feeling desperate and pathetic. Or maybe it was good sex. Or maybe that's just the last good encounter. Only you know.
0 0 0 0I felt connection with him it was different for me. it was more sensual. Yes I feel pathetic
If that's all it is, it can be replicated. Just need to find the right person. And it's more if you LIKE feeling pathetic rather than simply feeling that way.
I don't like feeling pathetic but I like masturbating thinking of him. I thought I might even fell in love with him?
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1 18I think it is cool that you are still attracted to him and think of him in that way. I don't see it as being a problem at all.
1 0 0 0Nah its fine
1 0 0 0Well I still self-serve to my 3x cheating ex-gf. So whose the real loser?
1 0 0 0No, people often do that.
0 0 0 0The sex with him was obviously good, and you think about that when masturbating. Nothing wrong with that. I sometimes think of past lovers when I masturbate.
1 0 0 0I jerk off to girls I loved longer ago than that because of what we did together. No sweat
1 0 0 0What you describe is, (from my POV) normal sexual behavior and as I said, I have jerked to girls from years ago, even when I was 20. She, one of those girls also rubbed off to different guys while we were going together, and that really got me hot. Don't sweat the small stuff. It's something everybody does, but they JUST DON'T ADMIT IT. Weird, huh?
No, that’s pretty normal. You formed an emotional bond with him. Not many people can do friends with benefits without forming one.
1 0 0 0That is a pretty natural response
1 0 0 0Who better to think of while Jilling off?
1 0 0 0No you are not a loser 🙂
1 0 0 0Thank you cor comforting🙂
You’re welcome 🙂
We all masturbate... you are normal
0 0 0 0Yes, you are
0 0 0 0Lol thanks...
You're welcome. Message me if you wanna talk more
Nah not really, but it's certainly time for you to move on and forget about him
1 0 0 0No... I do much worse
1 0 0 0Worse?
You desperately need his dick. dont you think?
1 0 0 0Normal
1 0 0 0No, how does that make you a loser?
1 0 0 0Not really, we all use past experiences for our imagination when masturbating
1 0 0 0Yes.
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