Am I moving too fast?

Me and my boyfriend have only been together for only two months and known each other for 3 and on Friday when he came to my house I put his hand inside my shirt so that he can touch my breasts ( i didn’t have a bra on) and I also jerked him off while we were french kissing. I’m a virgin and I’m looking for a long term relationship I’m hoping that this will be the man that I grow old with the rest of my life. I also have a lot of sexual curiosity and a high sex drive my plan is to wait until 5 months of dating or more to actually have sex.
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  • Personally, I think any sex before marriage is too soon (I'm Christian) because there's no stability with him before that meaning that even if you do have sex, you might not end up with him. Plus, if you date more guys down the road, it could lead to sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). If he was with several girls before you, and you'd still want to have sex, definitely use a condom or go for an STD test together. If he has strong feelings for you and respects you, he'll get it done. I think sex too soon in dating or relationships makes a woman seem "easy" and the man value her less. If you want a long term thing, make him earn it and see your value. Show him that you don't just let any guy in if you know what I mean.

    • But we haven’t had sex

    • @helppleasemaybe I know. I forgot to acknowledge what you said hahaha but yeah hope you guys work out <3

    • Thank you 💜

  • Totally normal

    Did you actually wrap your hand around his dick and stroke it up and down? That’s jerking off.

    • Yeah I did for like a few seconds and he almost came 😂

    • Omg super hot 💦🔥😍

Most Helpful Guys

  • At 18 you are thinking of long term. I hope you got several others things too. Yes, you can consider him as your partner but for lifetime the compatibility is must and which can't resolved in day or months.. It takes years.. at least for your age 2-3 years..

  • I maintain that it's the intensity of the emotional connection that dictates when sex starts. I'm betting with your sex drive, it'll be a lot less than that. I hope so because he may not stay all that long without sex now that he knows how horny you are.

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  • Go at your own pace

  • Seems totally normal to me. You are an adult. Many couples have sex before they have known each other two months. If you aren't already, get on some form of contraception.

    • But I’m scared about my parents finding out

    • When I feel ready I’m going to make him wear a condom

    • You are 18 in your profile. Your parents don't get to control your sex life. And particularly they don't get access to your medical records, at least not in the US and presumably other Western countries. Go talk to Planned Parenthood. They will help you. I donate monthly so they can help people like you.

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  • No. Its interesting. But don't get me wrong but it could happen that he won't be your live relationship

    • Why do you say that

    • Experience. It is super super rare that this really happens. If you're a girl for something like that ok. I really wish that it works out, but I'm a realist

    • Is it because you think that I’m moving too fast?

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  • Yeah you guys can hold out if you want. You can kind of gradually head into other things before intercourse. Nah you seem to moving at a reasonable pace but you should talk to your boyfriend and see what he says.

    • He loved it though 😂

    • Great lol

  • I heard u said earlier this guy had a series of breakups so please be careful if you thinking of long term and u may be going fast.. if you just want to have fun its fine.. dont have to worry.. enjoy..


    P. s. The thought of his hand inside your shirt feeling your breasts has made me hard

  • I'd say you're slightly moving to fast. But it's your relationship you two should plan on when sex should be put on the table.

  • Surprised it took 3 months honestly. If you feel comfortable that's great and totally normal.

  • No you are not moving fast