Am I one of the few people that don’t enjoy sex?

As in, I do not masturbate. I haven’t had sex in maybe 2 years and could care less. I’ve tried masturbating and it doesn’t really do anything for me. I always thought that maybe I was a late bloomer but I’m 26 and still don’t have that drive. I’ve only had sex with one person so maybe I’m jaded because I didn’t enjoy it enough? Even before that and now, I don’t feel the urge to have it. I have been on the apps and I feel the opportunity to hook up has presented itself, I just don’t care to. Am I asexual?
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  • There are people who really just have no drive or interest in sex. I knew one lady like that years ago. It was of no priority to her whatsoever. She had sex before and it didn't do anything for her.

    Although you could develop an interest later on maybe? Just saying.

    • Did she want companionship

    • Interesting that lady DID get married. The guy came across as being gay interestingly. Nothing wrong with that buy interesting observation.

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  • Maybe you are Asexual, but having a bed sexual experience can confuse and turn off your hormones. My very first experience was horrible too, I was like "this is what all the fuss was about"? Until I met somebody I was turned on by, we had chemistry and it was just right. He even had a very small penis and it was still great. I also learned that size didn't matter while learning that I actually liked sex. Do not force it but I am just saying, don't knock it yet, until you know for sure.

    • Yeah the thing is I never really had the drive in the first place.

  • Could be but you should rule out a medical or mental reason for it. Could be a hormone thing. Could be a medicine thing or a nutrient deficiency? If everything checks out including endicrine tests then maybe you just have a low sex drive.

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    • Strong indication of asexuality 🤣

    • I hope you got your answer. In case you have any questions or queries please feel free to ask.

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  • You're most likely asexual. Do you ever have romantic feelings for people?

    • I do, I enjoy kissing and the just the idea of dating

    • Well since you have interest in that, you might be demi-sexual. That's when someone has no sexual feelings unless they've formed an emotional bond with someone.

    • Still a heterosexual in my book because you like kissing and romance.😊

  • I don't think you're asexual.
    We can just call it a stagnation period.

  • It's totally ok not to enjoy sex but please be open about it if you date someone. He has a right to know.

  • You just haven't found a man who brings your Energy into flow.

  • Yeah, I guess you are.

  • You're asexual

  • I like masturbating but don't care for sex

  • I started dating at 29 and had my first sexual encounter. Couldn’t get it up. Eventually had sex but didn’t quite enjoy. I only did it to make her happy. You’re not alone. Attracted to women but don’t think I’m asexual. I enjoyed masturbating better.

  • Rare... asexual