Am I really missing out if I am inexperienced with sex?

I am 28 and have only had sex exactly one time 8 years ago. I used a condom, and she was a virgin too, so she was extremely tight and I couldn't really go in far. I haven't even kissed a woman since, nor have I ever had an actual relationship. It was only a weekend fling.

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  • Voted yes, and I think you should be grateful that you had sex once before.

    My reasons for voting yes are: you're of age and it's time for you to (gradually) find love and satisfy your carnal desires.

    While you may not want to rush, you may want to have positive engagement with girls to increase your experience.

    I think this is necessary for your lifelong happiness.

    • I am a 28 year old incel that has not even kissed a girl in 8 years. I have never had a real girlfriend. I have never been in a relationship.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I selected yes but it's yes and no.
    Sex is not everything.
    But it's also wonderful.
    So, in some ways, yes, you're missing out but there's also a wonderful world out there that can give fulfillment without sex.

    • But is sex something that is extremely euphoric and one of the best feelings and experiences?

    • I think you'll get a broad array of answers for that. For me personally, yes, sex is euphoric. Is it one of the best experiences? It's up there. What makes it interesting is that sex has both a mental and physical component.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Casual dating is an option if you not looking for anything serious, just ask what she likes if you start overthinking and do exactly that if and when needed.

    • I am really desiring a loving relationship, but sadly, that has been unobtainable for me.

  • No not on sex. Its more meaningful to find a woman and relationship.

    • I have never had a real girlfriend

    • Just have to be patient. It will happen. :)

    • I don't count on it really. I am seeking someone so rare, it will probably not go in my favor.

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  • I'm 17 and have only had sex with two girls. It was great and I hope for more as I get older.

  • Lessen your standards a bit. Just a tiny bit? Give someone a chance.

    • I only have 3 or 4 major things I look for. A woman that wants to fall in love and can, a woman that desires marriage, a woman that is decently attractive and has never had a first love

    • Omg there's plenty of women like that. But what do you mean first love? Someone she's absolutely smitten with? Obviously not one she was crazy for and he dogged her out.

    • I seek a woman that has never had a boyfriend or a romantic bond with a guy, especially from her youth

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