Am I right to block him or should I talk to him again?

So this guy I know him for 4 years ago but I haven’t seen him for two years. He decided that we should meet again and we met on a hotel room. Everything was okay, he kissed me, hugged me and then I gave him a blow job and he cum twice. He even tells me he will arrange a second date for us. I have to mention that this is my first sexual experience because I live in a Muslim country. Now what baffles me is that when I came back home, I didn’t receive any text from him. I said maybe because his city is two hours away from mine. But then even after twenty four hours, nothing. When I first met him he used to text me and said he had a great time with me. So after 24 hours I texted him and asked about his day, he replies. But he didn’t mention anything about that night. I mean I don’t want him to chat with me all the day but I would appreciate it if he only tells me” I had a great time with you” etc. anyways, then I wake up after two days and I decided to block him everywhere.
Did I do the right thing or am I too sensitive to block him for something like that? Should I text him again and see or wait for him to email me?
Updates:
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He talked to me and said he had too much fun. Thank you all 🙏🏻
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Can't judge from that. I'd unblock.
    Things work different in female/male brain... girls want that connection, guys sometimes want distance. He just unloaded his testosterone... the stuff that makes him want a female, so that needs recharged. he likely comes back.

    I think meeting like that is lowering your value, I'll let you figure out how to get this to a place you want it. Nothing was established or clear and so this may be messed up.

    • Thank you for stating your opinion. He didn’t force me to go to a hotel room at all. I’m not a religious person so I don’t think meeting in a hotel room is lowering my value just because I’m a girl. If it’s really lowering my value then it’s lowering his value too ! I just wanted to have some fun and we actually had !

    • ok, it's hard to assess from a few pieces to the puzzle. It isn't just meeting in hotel but how it's all perceived. if you want a relationship then you'll have to work harder to pull him back. if you got what you wanted, then so be it.

  • There are few things that id be comfy to talk in dm obv only u u are okay w that... and dont worry i won't ask u any details or what u did n how u did... so leme know if issokay or not

Most Helpful Girl

  • You should talk to him. Tell him how you feel. And next time don’t go so fast.

    • I didn’t go so fast. I have known him since 4 years.

    • Oh ok. You should still talk to him and tell him how you feel.

    • What’s the point of talking to him if he is not interested. I asked this question just to know if I’m exaggerating or if it’s really obvious that he is not interested

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  • If the guy is'nt interested , then why continue with a notion knowing he's not interested?