Am I the bad guy here?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend won't let me look at her butt because she thinks it's too small and she's insecure about it.
So last night I jokingly tried to convince her to let me just sneak a quick peek, and she called me a pervert!
How am I a pervert for wanting to see my own girlfriend's booty?
That's a perfectly reasonable request

[Lliam]

That doesn't make you a pervert. Jeeeez.

Have you guys ever had sex? I mean, you're going to see it then, right?

[Asker]

We've had sex many times, but when she she stands up, she either faces me or puts a shirt on while she's sitting down then covers it up lol. I've seen it during sex when she's bent over or whatever, but I've never seen it in it's natural state (like when she's standing or walking)

[Asker]

But thank you! It doesn't make me a perv! Lol

[Lliam]

When she's bent over, have you ever told her that she has a sexy ass or that you love her ass?

[Asker]

Umm... not when we were havign sex, no. I have told her many times that she's so hot she makes my heart pound (which is true), and she knows how attracted to her I am. I never specifically mentioned her ass though. Maybe I should've... dammit

[Lliam]

Thanks for the MHO, bro.

[Asker]

My man 🤜

[Gingerbread_GB]

I honestly think she was flirting with you, especially since you said you've had sex many times already.

[Asker]

Yeah, you could be right. She was smiling when she said it. Still, I'd like to see her booty lol. It's my favorite part of a woman and she won't let me! It's sad

[Gingerbread_GB]

Ask to see it more often. You can build up her confidence with your words and actions.

[Asker]

Ok, I will. I tell her how sexy she is all the time, but she doesn't seem to care. Anyway, I'll keep asking. She'll either get super annoyed and dump me or finally let me see it. Either way I can't lose! Lol Thank you

[Gingerbread_GB]

Do more than just words. Of course, I don't know the details of your relationship, but you can go shopping with her, pick out clothes for her etc, letting her know you really appreciate her body.

[Asker]

Interesting idea. Like buy her sexy clothing? Or stuff only a hot girl would look good in?

[Asker]

I don't know the details either. Your guess is as good as mine. I'll take may advice I can get lol

[Gingerbread_GB]

You can buy sexy stuff, too. That would spice things up. But I meant showing a genuine interest in how she looks everyday.

[Asker]

Oh ok, that makes sense

[Asker]

Good suggestions