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Sexual Health Am I the only one who hates degrading sex?
Anonymous
I’m not into anal sex, facials, deepthroat, choking, BDSM, I would rather have vagina sex and would rather try sex positions which benefits both genders not just one person alone. Most of the porn (scripted porn) are targeted towards men to please men only. That’s why a lot of the sex positions are not meant to be pleasurable to women those porn stars are paid to fake it like fake moaning and all that. I think I’m one of those ladies who’s not into sex positions depicted in scripted porn. Scripted is basically fantasy and it’s not necessarily meant to be done in real life. Before you go do that to your partner, ask her first if she’s not into it don’t insist that she do that to please you. My ex was an idiot and he can’t understand that I’m not into it I had to tell him no twice on different days he wasn’t happy when I met him face to face therefore I’m glad I broke up with him
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There are definitely some guys who get mad when their partner is not into doing it. Like my ex he just have to keep persuading me into doing it. One thing I learned is that I don’t think he’s the only guy who act like this, there are some other guys who can’t seem to understand about ladies having different likes when it comes to sex he must be thinking that ladies all like the same thing and got so mad when he found out I hated it.
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I’m not against couples who are into it as long as both are fine with it then that’s what makes a healthy relationship. But if the lady is against it and the guy starts forcing her by pinning her down and do that to her which causes her to get mad or scared then the guy is being abusive and that’s similar to rape
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What Girls & Guys Said
4 40i was never into choking until i met a girl who loved it. it was awkward at first because i'm not into the pain stuff, but after a while i started to get into it because i knew that she liked it so much. Still not a fan of anal and very rarely go there unless requested
I'm definitely against. Its a total turn off, like lose my erections
Nope you are not alone, many people are like you.
But you better make sure that if you are dating a guy, he shares the same interests as you, or same things will happen, just like your previous relationship.
nope
Nope you just have standards and respect for yourself. Please be reassured that there's nothing wrong with that
I have a question about it
Which position is pleasurable for women
Every woman is different but here’s this www.womenshealthmag.com/.../
I don't see any pictures of it
www.womenshealthmag.com/.../
This one has
Yes of course it as I had seen and tried lots of it But which one is pleasurable for you
I/we are not into that either.
Have u tried all of these to know u don’t like them?
But if you don't like foreplay how you gonna make yourself ready (wet) before sex?
Foreplay is fine to be honest
What you like to do before sex for example?
Giving my partner kisses and touch him where he’s sensitive in certain areas. I heard guys have some sensitive spots where he will feel good once he’s touched
Do you like to suck penis or do you let your partner lick your vagina?
I wouldn’t want him to do that and I wouldn’t do that to him too, I will just use my hands to pleasure his balls and head
But sex need to be more enjoyable why you don't let yourself do more sexy things in bed, like sucking, kissing, touching, licking each other, also you should make footjob sometimes or you should paint your toenails..
I don’t mind doing those things to him
Do you like to make footjob?
Maybe if he’s fine with it
Do you think you have nice feet?
Sex is overrated
Sounds like you prefer “vanilla” sex. It may be okay for some, but others might get bored and move on.
You’ll never know unless you never give it a try.
I’m a scaredy-cat so I would rather try sex positions which is safe for me and the guy
Many people agree with you including me. Kinky people are usually more vocal about their desires so it seems like everyone is that way but that’s a myth.
Lol this is not the 1950s anymore toots. Learn to live a little
In a lot of ways I agree with you. I like the look of face to face positions as they look more intimate and romantic.
I really like the idea of going down on a woman I'm not sure how I feel about the idea of recieving oral.
I don't like the idea of a girlfriend deepthroating me, I'm not into things like chocking or spanking I don't think that I couldn't do that while being intimate with a partner.
There are a few things I wouldn't be against trying if she wanted to, anal either way I'm not against and it can still be intimate and not degrading.
Well there's nothing wrong with not wanting to do those things but you do have to realize they are not just for guys. I have been with some women who always got off on rough and kinky sex including anal, choking and bdsm. Some women truly crave that shit.
I have always found it repulsive.
No two people are a perfect match when it comes to sexual preferences, so there will always be a need for some degree of compromise. For example, I do not enjoy giving my girlfriend oral, but I always do because it makes her happy and I care about her pleasure.
Should you do things you hate and that are painful for you if you don't want to? Nope.
Are you the only one who hates degrading sex? Nope.
Are there a lot of women out there who love things like BDSM, choking, hair pulling and anal? Yes there are.
You do you.
deal with it
No, I hate it too