Am I the only one who loves only normal sex?

Other than the stuffs like Maledom, Femdom, Cuck, BDSM, Threesome etc etc?
Isn't sex an intimate act anymore? An expression of love?
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  • You aren’t the only one. It seems that few like it loving and romantic anymore though.

    I can’t love this question enough. I 100% agree with you. Sex should very much be a romantic expression of love. A connection on the deepest level imaginable. A selfless act of becoming one flesh together as man and woman.

    • Soothing words as always..)

    • Thank you for a good question

  • Same here, I can't never do any Maledom or BDSM on the girl I love and Threesome & Cuck? yuck

    Our relationship is so lovely and thus sex is nothing but an intimate act of love

    But no disrespect for people who have different kinks, except for Cuck and 3some

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think I like vanilla sex a lot more than I like the other stuff we've tried before. It's just something about missionary and kissing while doing missionary that makes it so sweet and intimate. So no you're not the only one.

    • Missionary with slow kisses is so...😍

    • Yes it is... 😍

  • I'm sure there's a lot of vanilla people still around. There's just some that are kinky and need more to their act is all. But it's not everyone's thing.

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  • Normal sex was always normal for majority of people. It is porn that changed things for worse and forever. Now days due to porn epidemic and sickness, most guys are broken and all they want is to blow the load. Girls on the other hand became way too promiscuous and it takes a toll on them too and it becomes obvious to them when it is to late after they hit a 30-35 year old wall.

    • People have been kinky for thousands of years. Porn didn't change that -- it merely described it.

    • @slatyb I do have to agree with you on that. The only thing is, before it was accessible (visually and physically of course) only to the most powerful and rich. Now it is accessible to all through the power of free internet and that is a huge HUGE problem.

    • Porn or kinky sex? Kinky sex is in the Kama Sutra. It's been around at least since recorded history. Pretty much so has porn. As soon as someone picked up a stick and drew on a rock, they drew a phallus.

  • I think you'd find that even people that are into all of those things, also like "normal" sex as well. Those things are probably not their go-to, just a rare deviation from normal to spice things up.

    My wife and I are "normal" 95% of the time, but we do introduce some non-vanilla sex every once in a while. That doesn't mean we don't love the normal intimate sex.

  • No, I'm the same, not into any of that stuff.

    • I think lots of people are the same

  • You are far from alone …..

  • we have certainly explored a variety of foreplay options, but the most enjoyable moments boil down to when we are physically intimate as a man and woman.

    • I will note that I believe foreplay is very important portion of mentally and physically connecting. We do enjoy every variety of positions, but they do revolve around each of us pleasuring one another. There are times when we just want to have sex, and the intimacy level is not as prevalent as other times.

  • Please let me assure you are most definitely not alone.

  • People's preferences for sexual activity vary as widely as their preferences for food or music. Why do you think that kinky sex is not an act of love between the people involved?

    • I do understand some kinks But I mean come on Sir, tie up and whipping someone's butt.. how's that anyway love or intimacy?

  • You are not the only one who loves vanilla sex, 95% of people are vanilla.

    Consider one thing that even people with kinks, various fetishes like normal sex, kinks are just a supplement to the sexual act.

  • You are definitely not alone.

  • You are not alone.

  • Normal for me means oral and Normal sex

  • I am still a virgin, but I have never been interested in Maledom, Femdom, Cuck, BDSM, Threesome etc.

  • I love normal romantic sex

  • You’re not the only one..

    But I’m a bit spicy🤣

  • Porn changed everything. It normalized freak sex.

  • Me too I like just regular sex.

  • Omg yes , I constantly come across women who want me to tie them up but I am not a ruthless dominant like christian grey but sometimes I just play along

  • You are not alone