Am I the only woman who actually hates men who show some type of aggressive behavior or willingness to be violent towards me especially sexually?

It seems that there are only women who find that a real turn on. It’s a huge turn off for me. Wondering if I am really that unique…
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Funny I get so many answers from men on a subject about women’s tastes…
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You get answers from men on women's tastes because we men interact with women sexually and we know from experience what most like and woman.

    Here's the problem. Most women are irresistibly drawn to a man who is confident and sexually aggressive and dominant. That doesn't mean "violent", but unfortunately those characteristics are often coupled with violent tendencies too. Many women are willing to accept those tendencies to be with a man who makes their panties wet.

    That is my real life experience, and nothing you say will trump what I have seen with my own eyes.

    • You responded based on what you experienced. It may no be what most women want but what most women who are attracted to you want.

    • You make a valid point, but I know a lot of other guys who have had the same experience. Based on how you phrased your question, I suspect you know a lot of women are as I described. All I can do is share what I know. Take it for what its worth.

    • Actually, no. I don’t know any.

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  • Probably not the only woman but definitely in the minority. But don't read anything into it most women are toxic.

Most Helpful Girls

  • i think its about 50.50 like half and half basically.

  • You can most certainly add me to your list. ❤

    • Ah… Nice!

    • Thank you for the MHGirl.

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  • I think most women think like you and rightfully so. Sex is an act of love, not violence or mock-up rape dominance. The idea of acting this way toward a woman is also a turnoff for me. I want to make love and be tender. I want intercourse to be natural and loving. So she feels safe in my arms while she is in such an open and vulnerable state of me being inside her body. It’s how I’m wired.

    • I guess it’s actually the other way around or actually it seems to be. It’s a bit sad.

  • No you are not, plenty of people have control issues, they just manifest in different ways.

    • It doesn't have anything to do with having control issues. If anything, men tend to have more control issues lol.

  • I don't understand women who cherish violence or aggression towards themselves 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • Psychological damage… 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • No, you're normal.

    • Oh really? It seems that many if not most women/men are ok with hair pulling or spanking and all that shit…

    • I'm not into it but if my girl wants a spanking or her hair pulled I'll do it for her. I prefer to give pure pleasure not pain.

    • Especially oral pleasure!

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  • Everyone has their own tastes.

  • Lucky for you, there are tons of beta males out there who will worship at your feet. If you don't like the typical player CHAD / BRAD who will rail you until you can't walk the next morning, there are tons of beta males who are the opposite. Any woman crying about not finding the type of guy she wants in this current society gets NO SYMPATHY from me. She's bringing it on herself and being too picky or ignoring the men who fit the type she says she wants.

    • Same goes for men always complaining about women...

  • I read somewhere that only 40% women are submissive. So you are just, vanilla?

    • Not really. I’m just too aware to be into violent guys I think.

    • I think I am confusing actual violence vs roleplay. Actual violence is always bad and not apealing.

    • Role play? Giving actual spanking or slapping isn’t acting lol. Also, there’s a reason why people enjoy certain things. Nothing exists in a vacuum…

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  • I either hate rude men

  • I don't think all women feel one way or the other. There are probably a lot that feel like you do.

  • Since 70% of women have the rape fantasy. It is only logical you could be prt of the 30% who don’t.

    You seem to have a misandric undertone.

    • Misandric cause I'm not turned on by "the rape fantasy"? No, probably just smarter lol.

    • I never said not having the rape fantasy made you misandric. It’s your other sentiments.

    • Which ones then? Be precise.