Am I the reason why he cums fast?

I've had sex with one guy and that's with the guy I am with currently. I'm very slim and petite with a cute little frame. Whenever we have sexy he cums extremely fast, maybe last 3-5mins if that. Am I to tight? or? Is that a good or bad thing?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • He must be sexually immature and just as inexperienced as you are. Also, I'd suggest sexplainations on YouTube for you. You could use the education. Becuase your question makes zero sense. "Am I [too] tight?" Really?

    And you need to decide if that's a good or bad thing for you. If you're a wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am type, that's probably okay. If you like marathon sex and take a while to climax, 3-5 minutes is awful and he needs to work on his timing on his own. Or with you. Whichever.

  • First of all 5-8 minutes after beginning penetrative sex is not premature ejaculation - it is actually quite well within the normal range. Premature ejaculation is defined as less than 2.5 minutes.

    I understand that functionally he is too quick for you be satisfied but that is not unsual in teens. Most even adult men last less than 10 minutes after penetration so either you have to get him ready for round two if you want more.

    Wishing you the best of luck.

  • 3-5 minutes isn't fast. That's how long it takes. That's about as long as you're gonna have sex with anyone. If it's not long enough for you to get off, you should incorporate oral or outercourse or something like that.

    • LOL wait wait wut?

    • y'all think you last like 20 minutes but you don't lmao. Time it sometime. Sex lasts like 5 minutes tops. That's normal.

    • Well that sucks

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  • The short answer is yes, you really are that good. The long answer is yes, you really are that good. Sorry I couldn't be more helpful.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Nah man he's just being lazy, we do all say that though. Either that or shit my bad it's been a while, but sometimes I just don't feel like doing all that work, when I can treat it like a race and win it! LOL However when I'm really into it, and I'm enjoying it, it can last for hours. Try getting him really in the mood, and tease him for a long time before you start.

    • I tease him and give him oral all while wearing lingerie

    • That's why he only last 3 minutes lol a bj isn't teasing its getting him that far done

  • Its good so don't worry. Every guy likes a tight P****. he's probably trying to figure out a way to last longer in bed but its all fun. He's naturally going to start to last longer with more sex. Give him a more hand jobs and he'll last longer.

    • He also told me to "f**k me back" but I didn't really know what to do & im still getting used to sex

    • haha that means don't just lay there and take it. You gotta know when to take charge and jump on top of him. Sex is a give and go thing. If he's doing all the work than its still good but it can be better. You'll get the hang of it. Good luck!!

    • Even if you're laying there, rock your hips in times with him. Less work for him, more pleasure for you too.

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  • That is about normal for most males!!!

    He needs to get more experience and control, and that can only be learned by repeating the experience and maybe masturbating alone beforehand.

    And yes it means he finds you extremely attractive and you're really pushing his buttons. E. g. the fact that he cums so easily with you.

  • Some guys do not last very long. To make it last longer have him masturbate in the morning (alone) and then have sex with him sometime during the same day. He will not have near the cum built up. However, he will last longer.

  • I think that's about the average for men. Maybe just below average, but it's not like 30 seconds.. so.. talk with him. And try to explain it

    • also, go for round nr 2 after a few minutes.. he'll probably last much longer.

    • +1 on round 2

  • It sounds like it is early days in your physical relationship and you are getting used to each other. Usually with practice the length of time he lasts gets longer if you want to take it slower.

  • Some guys finish quicker than others 3-5 is quite short but not too crazy. I think it means you're doing something right !

  • it wasn't until like a year ago i realized i was pushing until i got to the point of no return then i would try to stop it. took some learning to last longer

  • thats premature ejaculation. the ejaculation being trigger by the nervous system too fast because it is not used to the stimulation of your vagina. thats ok, thats not your problem. his nervous system will adapt and get used to it over time.

  • You're so good!

  • ıf you come at the same time then thats a good thing but normally coming so fast is considered as bad thing.
    are u his first?

  • No, it's him

  • It sounds like a combination of you're incredibly sexy (and therefore stimulating to a male) and he's kind of bad in bed.

  • its got to do with how horny he is

  • yeah, if you were horrible he wouldn't be able to cum, let alone keep it up.

    • Ok good to know its not me