Am I too horny?

I can't start any relationships because I'm too ho**y. I haven't had much experience with guys yet or at least not enough because I still want more and that's my problem because I don't want to rush, it's not advisable and healthy for a relationship, I know something about it. So I've been looking for 'adventures' with people that I don't want a future with because that's not how you build a healthy, strong relationship and they're not good boyfriend materials. And once I'm satisfied, I want to find a guy who I can build that healthy relationship. I said "I've been looking for adventures" but I haven't done "it" yet, I've kissed only a few guys and we touched a little with 1 but that's it, the rest was just sexting online, watching porn, mas****ing and I'm really trying not to do much in real life because I'm not that kind of person, I don't want to hurt myself or anybody but yeah, that's my dilemma.

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  • As you'll soon understand, the prolactin release after coomimg is theorized to be a biochemical signal to the Clairvoyant Cuckvestigator that nirvana is reached.

    This means you will be less horny after filling up a whole entire homemade jar.

    Many people are horny. And if they find a fuckbuddy, they'll become less horny. Suppose you'll find a boyfriend material, and if you release it with him, how is it worse than fucking someone who isn't "boyfriend material"? You can get satisfied with the same person as you "build a healthy relationship with."

    Or, do you think, those who aren't "fuckbois" have small penises and low T? All of them?

    • But I want to go along with my plan. You gotta have a plan, some vision and opinion on life. And that's how I want to do it: I want to meet a guy that I'll go slow with, we'll be getting to know each other for at least a few months, even 6 or more depending on how often we see each other and experience and during this time the most we do is hugging, maybe holding hands and kissing. And after that when we both feel we have a strong bond and connection, we can start being more intimate. But I can never follow my plan 😭 and once I start being very intimate with a guy or I let him cross my bounties, it's over because I'm thinking he's not a boyfriend material and I want another guy who I can build something better hopefully

    • Are you saying anyone who goes beyond kissing within 6 months of dating, is not a stable partner?

      But you've never done anything beyond it, have you? So you can't really know. I strongly advise not to fuck someone at the side while dating another. Much better to fuck the same person you're dating.

      If it really hits you, you can go coom into a jar and maybe use a vibrator. How many cycles of vibration does it typically take you to reach the O? ↗
      This way you'll have an increase in prolactin, which makes you less horny, and makes you more soft and willing to do the milky handholding stuff.

      Is it a problem of you not finding the right guy? Who can both fuck well and be a stable partner?

    • I was actually fingered and eaten out quickly 2 weeks ago for the 1st time or at least he tried to. I've given 2 blowjobs. And we were naked together but that's it. And I already started having thoughts that this is now how I planned it even though it's very special and I can't regret it. But he lives far away and I have an urge to flirt with other guys without commitment. That guy who lives far away is so sweet and boyfriend material, that's why I don't want to have sex with him but I'm still horny. And yeah I masturbate a lot but I want more, it's not enough anymore 😭

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Most Helpful Guy

  • You're going to find that's part of life timing is everything I go through the same thing and I hate masturbating by myself I would rather role play with somebody or have phone sex it's just 10 times better that way have you tried either one of those it's kind of cool if you can find a masturbating friend that's like a friends with benefit they can take you to the Moon whenever you want to go it's just 10 times hotter 10 times more intense and it actually is a very special type of friendship and relationship

    • But you can't be in a relationship and have phone sex

    • No I'm not in a relationship if I was I wouldn't even brought it up

Most Helpful Girl

  • Good idea but really start one with a women please!

    my sister did that and her boy toy knocked her up and ran off. Just to latter come back and do it again!

    Try being bi it is so much fun! Have a special friend to help my gfs

    • Girl what? 😂I'm straight and it won't change 😁

    • Then hop on the pill girl! Would you ever with a couple?

    • I just explained I didn't want to do it...

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  • Maybe you could change the way you masturbate to feel more satisfied until you're ready for a committed relationship

  • Huh?

    No you're not too horny. The only time I would say someone is too horny is if it's interfering with work or life responsibilities or relationships.

    But in your case you say your too horny to have a relationship. That doesn't make sense. Have a relationship, have sex, and it relieves the horny.

    • But I don't want to i don't love anybody yet, I want it to be special and I'm Christian. Maybe I should stop hanging out with guys, going on trips with them, hoping to their houses. Only walks, dinners, talking on the street etc

    • None of that will stop you from being horny. Just saying. You can't find love unless you spend time with guys. If you're Christian then you know God created you and your emotions and feelings. He wants you to experience love (and sex). So by avoiding love and sex you are likely avoiding the plans he has made for you. Stop avoiding this stuff.

  • That's you just being stupid, not "horny".

  • Being super horny is fine.

    Stop making out with strangers and stop overthinking relationships.

    Wait for the right match, stay a virgin till you know its a right match, experience in sex is a huge turn off to most guys.

  • I get hard too easily in many different situations.

  • RIP your inbox.

  • I feel that. 🙈

    • I bet most men do.

    • Yeah, its not always Bad, but sometimes

    • I don't know what to do

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  • No I don't think you're too horny at all and you're right you don't want to rush into a relationship just so you can have sex. Just stay safe with whatever you do

  • If that's horny then we all are

  • the adventure looking and playing around can be for years if you want it to be

    enjoy and be safe

    • But I don't think I want it, I'm not a whore and I don't want to hurt my and guys feelings, and I'm Christian

  • Never tried to cum with a guy in real?

  • The first problem is the incorrect premise that when you have sex with someone has some bearing on how compatible you are going to be with the person, thats fucking jibberish.

    Then you abandon mere jibberish to embrace the absolutely bat shit crazy idea that in order to avoid the percieved problem you should actually actively try to fuck people that you don't get on with.

  • Im the same as you tbh
    Never did sex
    Just sexting and i did making out

    • How old are you and what making out are you talking about? :)

    • Mmmm im 26 Dirty moves and touchs

    • Oh, where are you from?

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