Am I too old to wear a bikini?

My body is still is good shape. I enjoy wearing bikinis sometimes rather than one piece. A friend says that a lot of women stop wearing bikinis after 40. I am early 40s. I have been told that I look more like I am in my 30s or younger. Flattery, maybe? How old a person looks is a matter of perception. I have worked on my body and believe me I have the body to wear one. Am I too old to wear a bikini or not? Would a tankini be better or a one piece? In other words, will people talk about me being to old to wear one? My boyfriend says yes.

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  • Really what an air head your boyfriend must be. If you have the body and looks... hell ya wear a bikini, you didn't work hard so you can hide away, and 40 is isn't to old and if you look younger than what your age is... own it girl!! I wear a bikini myself and I am 45 and I look younger than what my age is right now. It's always the way you carry yourself that makes a difference when wearing a bikini when getting older, if you have the body yes, if not then wear something that looks sexie and comfortable and still look nice and not trashy looking.

    • Thanks for the MHG 🙂

  • If you are happy with your body then you are never too old to wear your bikini. My mom still does and she is much older than you.

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  • Absolutely, then... If you're still in great shape at 41, then you earned the right to wear one.

    I wouldn't put much stock in what other people say, especially other women, they can be catty as hell and are just saying it because they couldn't fit into/wear one.

    I am uncertain though as to whether your boyfriend is supporting you in your decision to wear one or not? The way it's worded, could go either way...

  • If you have the body for it then there's no reason to believe that you can't rock a bikini, it's just clothing and age shouldn't really put a stop to wearing stuff if you have the courage to wear it but judgment unfortunately is part of the world and it will always be a thing.

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  • No one is ever too old to rock a bikini - especially not you! Let your titties, ta-tas, fiery biscuits, melons, baps, coconuts, bangers, the twins, and udders feel the warmth of the sun as you flaunt your confidence. Life is too short to worry about when it's time to let your inner milk jug goddess shine. So wear what makes YOU feel beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

    • feel warmth? but bikini has top, and covers twins same as a one piece

  • 100% you can wear one! Bikinis don't have an age limit.

    Sounds your boyfriend is deliberately trying to put you off wearing a bikini, as he may get jealous of others looking at you.

  • I said If It Makes You Happy go for it it's your body it's your attitude it's your happiness it's your right to do what you want to do if it feels good do it

  • your boyfriend is jealous and doesn't want others looking at you, wear what makes you happy

  • Age has nothing to do with it. Who told you that, anyway?
    If you look good, how would someone know your age?

    I'd advise you to wear what you like. Rock that hot bod.

  • Too old? Never.

    Question is do you have the body to wear one, regardless of age.

  • I'm late to this topic but you should where what makes YOU feel good/comfortable/confident.

    Rock a bikini when you feel like it's the right circumstance! There's plenty of different styles of bikini that give you options to figure out what fits your body type best.

  • Funny that you are bragging about your body but failed to post a picture so we could judge for ourselves!

  • Nah, go for the bikini.

    If you don't, you'll regret it.

    I wear a Speedo at 64.

    I can rock it, fairly well, anyway. Lol. I'd rather be naked, but local laws prohibit such behavior, even in my own backyard swimming pool.

    My wife hates it.

    I don't care.

  • Nope! Go for it!

  • My wife is around 60 and to me she is as hot and sexy as when we met decades ago. She can wear whatever she likes.

    Wear what you want. If anyone is talking about you, its probably because they are jealous of how good you look in it.

  • wear it, dont let them sway you from how you feel

  • How to tell if you have a bikini body?
    1. Do you have a body?
    2. Do you want to wear a bikini?

    If the answer to both questions is yes, then you have a bikini body.

    There's no "too old" Wear what you want to wear.

  • Hell no you are not too old! I want to see that nice ass on the beach!!!

  • If you are in good shape, wear one until you are 70-ish.

  • No, if you are in shape you should go for it. I see women at the gym that I have seen working out for years that are in their 50s and I think they are still hot.

  • Wear whatever you want. From the way you're describing yourself people will be talking about how hot you look.

  • I highly doubt you're too old to wear a bikini. It's more about if you feel comfortable wearing one you'd probably still turn guys on loje me but it's more about you and your comfort zone. Feel free to dm me if you want to chat about it privately.

  • You are never too old.

  • Your body, your choice - wear anything you want 👍🙂

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