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Am I too skinny to have sex with?

I had an experience with an ex where I had my leg on him and he told me to move because I was hurting him. this absolutely destroyed all my self esteem. I am 5’0 and about 79-80 pounds. I don’t have a lot of body fat or muscle and I’m absolutely terrified that my hip bones or pelvic bone will hurt the guy I’m with. (I don’t have any eating disorder and I get blood work for my thyroid every few months, according to my doctors I am completely healthy even with how light I am)(also I am aware I asked this already but I got a lot of people telling me and asking if I had an eating disorder which the answer is no)
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Most Helpful Guys

  • in my opinion, you are making a huge big thing out of nothing. I've been with 90 pound women, and I've been with 160 pound women, and both of them can find ways to sit on me or put their leg on me or whatever and be uncomfortable. It really doesn't take a whole lot if you are sitting or laying or leaning in a certain way or on a certain place. That's NORMAL for EVERYONE.

    You have arteries and veins that pump blood that aren't very far under the skin, and likewise you have nerves and joints and so on, and a small amount of pressure in the right area can bring pain. Even a little kid can do that, or my dog, for example, who thinks she should be allowed to be up on my lap.

    The solution is simple: you just readjust them until it's comfortable again, or, if you've let it go for a while and it's starting to really hurt, you get them off of you for a couple of minutes. And in the context of sex, it just means you switch positions for a while. That's one of the reasons you switch positions in the first place. It's NORMAL. For EVERYONE.

    And while it's good to be aware that you could be doing something that's undesirable (rather than doing something undesirable and being oblivious to it or in denial about it), when you are told that it's normal and no big deal, you need to accept that as well. I promise you: you are just fine.

    • I’m not making a huge deal out of nothing, for me that ex absolutely destroyed my self esteem and made me question if any guy could even like me. Maybe for you it’s not a big deal but this is something I hate about myself and question almost every day I see myself in a mirror.

    • I'm sorry your ex did that to you, but I'm saying that there's nothing wrong with you. You are perfectly fine as you are, and you have no reason to feel bad about yourself. Tons of guys (including me) love petite girls, and while you may run into an occasional guy who isn't a fan, there's more than enough guys who love girls your size that you'll have plenty of guys to choose from.

  • Don't think you will hurt anyone, don't worry. I don't really know what you look like but if your doctor says you are healthy I believe it. So that leads to the answer that no you are not too skinny to have sex with.

    I really don't think you would hurt any guy because of being skinny.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Your leg could be hurting him from the way it was resting on him or whatever and not so much due to how light you are.

  • Anyone is entitled to have sex, whether she/he be chubby, skinny, average or sexy.

    • Thank you for the MHO. :)

    • You deserved it 👍

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  • Gonna be blunt about this maybe just eat a little bit more :/ but eat more healthy stuff... o... o maybe also do a bit of resistance training. Low weight workouts. And maybe you can I guess gain a little weight in a healthy sense. If this is something that is that important to you. As muscle often weights upwards of like twice sometimes for some 3x the weight of other body tissues. Just be aware if your as thin as you say workouts should come with pretty fast results. As lean people tend to have quicker responses to workouts.

  • Where do we find such men?
    Of course not. Cowgirl would be a good choice for you.

  • USE CM AND KG!!! Even NASA us CM and KG!!!

  • maybe your leg was just stopping his blood circulation

  • Sleep around with a guy who likes you skinny. It is nothing to worry about. Your body is usable then you have nothing to worry

  • Didn't you ask this a couple of days ago?

    • Yes, and I acknowledged it in the post by saying I know I already asked it and gave my reason for reasking.

  • Just sounds like the guy was a pussy

  • I don't think you are

  • 36 kilos oml… That is really light

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