Am I weird for feeling humiliation when I am down on my boyfriend giving him a head? Or is it normal to feel that way?

Every time I am doing it I just feel kind of humiliated. Just the fact that I am on my knees on front of a guy (even if it's my boyfriend who I know loves me and respects me).

I talked about this with him and he just told me that I am overthinking and suggested that we can do it lying in bed.

I still want to know whether it's normal to feel that way when I am down or it is just me.

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  • You have issues about that, then don't do it anymore. Or ask him to eat you out the same, you standing and him kneeling, and then ask him how does it feel.

  • Sorry, that's on you. No thing humilliating about getting on your knees

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  • Its not unusual per say. To some its even one of the core reasons to do it.

    But I suppose if you don't want to stop doing it (which is an option) and would rather solve your emotional issues that should be doable.

    First, figure out why you feel that way. Is the act itself too bad for you? Is it a matter of feeling helpless or inferior? Is there something unpleasant about it? So on.

    From there its normally not that difficult to solve.

  • Well it’s not that;erotic acts are all about bonds and mutual liking so it’s not about dominance or asserting it or humiliation so I would suggest that to get over it , t would help if it became mutual;like I don’t know if you like the going’s down there from males but if you do you should tell your boyfriend to do that more often like on equal terms while he is kn the knees too or you can try the 69 position to kind of explore each other at the same time and to create some sort of harmony!!

  • Well, depends. Does he get on his knees when he eats you out?

  • Maybe try a non subservient position, I always liked 69 myself.
    For some and how he treats you while you are performing on him it can be humiliating.
    Talk to him about it, as it might cause resentment on your part later on.

  • Don't do it if you don't enjoy it.

  • you’re weird.

  • yes...

  • Nope 🙅🏻

  • YOU'RE OVER THINKING

  • Your spirit knows right from wrong. You are living in sin and fornicating. This society loves to tell you that casual sex is fine, but the Word of God says that it is not. This society is antichrist for a reason and it is not for your benefit. Thus every single time you take part in that activity (outside of marriage), you are committing sin. You say 'my boyfriend who I know loves me and respects me.'

    Then where is the marriage? where is the ring? where is the unison with God as your witness? Where are the plans to start a family? If he did truly love and respect you, he would never encourage you to take part in sin with, or without him. This society overall loves to mock and ignore the Word of God... look where it has gotten them.

    Thus in answer to your question. It is normal to feel that way to anyone that has intuition from within that has not yet been destroyed by society. My friend who was recently saved used to live in that way. Nowadays she wouldn't go anywhere near a man unless married. When we commit sin, we also attract demons to us and I've seen the outcome of that too because I 'accidentally' cast a few out several weeks ago. Do not ignore what your spirit is telling you. But one thing I will tell you now. The majority of the comments below will completely ignore the sin and will suggest workarounds that lead to more sin...

  • I suppose some women feel like that but it’s actually an intimate act and no guy feels that way going down on a girl so I definitely don’t feel a woman is submitting to me doing it, I just feel like she really likes me