Am I wrong for bribing her for a Blowjob?

[Anonymous]

(This happened years ago I just still feel bad about it, but she is now my girlfriend)

Its a long story but ill summarise it.
Me and, (ill call her T), T used to be really really close friends, in like middle/ high school, but i thought she was annoying..
Like I saw her everyday all day, no break, it was just annoying. So I started to ignore her
I lied to her and told her that somebody told me that she talked about me behind my back and, that's why I was ignoring her..
She even showed up at my house and stayed outside for like 20 minutes

So anyway skip some stuff I started to miss her & my hormones started to kick in so I was very aroused all the time...

I called her and we started talking, she wanted me to forgive her.
I told her I would if she gave me a blowjob anytime I wanted.
It took awhile and she eventually said yes
That's how I got my 1st few blow jobs.
To be honest it strengthened our relationship,

She is now my girlfriend\bestfriend and we are both grown up
After I started getting bjs it was awkward but eventually id get a bj everyday after school without even having to ask.
we hit it off sexually
And I lost my virginity to her
She told me she had always liked me but she never knew I wanted her to do that for me
She said she probably wouldn't have done it if i didn't bribe her, but she is glad we are together

I did apologize to her, I felt bad for bribing her like this when we were younger, I was young and dumb...
I told her I lied about it and she was mad but
She of course she eventually forgave me because she's awesome

We are now 17 & 18
This was when we were 15 & 14

[jp612612]

Are you wrong? Of course not. In fact, you shouldn't feel guilty about this or try to box it in -- you should blow it out by basing more and more sexual favors on "bribes". Like when you guys go out, make sure you pay and when you get back to your place, have her walk in really close to you and say "Anon, that dinner and movie was just so expensive. I just don't know how I'll ever pay you back!" as she undoes a couple buttons on her blouse.

[MrNameless]

You straight up took advantage of her when you were young man. She had feelings for you and you took advantage of it and by bartering her friendship to have your sexual urges met.

[LindsayRB91rds]

At 14 and 15, we're all young and stupid and think we know everything. You thought you knew how to handle that relationship and handled it badly. So what. If you are together now and happy then it worked out. I hope you aren't lying to her now or trying to manipulate her - and that she is honest with you.

What happened happened. You cleared the air and now you're showing that you've grown up. Good for you guys!

[Nojudge]

Bribe? You were paying her for sexual flavors!

[Anonymous]

You're a disgrace

[Anonymous]

A lot of women secretly crave a strong man sexually speaking. You exhibited that dominance and she responded by complying with your wishes. She ended up becoming a better lover Because of it. Well done