Am I wrong for telling my fiancé I won't marry him unless he gets a penis enlargement surgery?

[Anonymous]

His penis is very small

[SteveSmith1985]

Why the fuck would you agree to become engaged? Why did you even continue to date if this was an issue? You might as well just break it off and make up some random reason. This is the kind of shit that'll scar the guy for life. Holy shit woman. How did you let this get to this point?

But I'd say, no... you might as well not tell him. I mean, he's not going to get penis enlargement surgery, marry you and live happily-ever-after, so your relationship is already finished. You might as well understand that now. Since that's the case, I see no benefit in you being honest about why (I think this might be the first time I'm ever advising someone to lie to their significant other). You're just going to be making something already devastating (having his engagement broken off) a thousand times more devastating if you're honest about why. There is zero chance that he will be ok with this plan of yours, and still marry you. Are you crazy?

[Jamie05rhs]

@SteveSmith1985 by the way, I'm the one who gave you the downvote lol. Sorry about that. (That was before you commented on my comment!). It wasn't personal, though; trust me. I just 100% disagreed with your advice to her. Why should she lie? How is that going to help anything? Save him from the truth? But he needs to hear the truth. Because otherwise how will he ever know? Plus, if he believes the bullshit lie that she tells him as an excuse for breaking up, he's just going to be insecure about THAT!

[NetSapien]

LMFAO.. I only laugh because you were anonymously asking and well my ex-wife once asked if I would do it.. my obvious answer was hell no, and I stand up at about 6.5 inches.

Yes.. this was all levels of wrong, this is like "Special Hell" level wrong.. the average sized penis is 5 to 5.5 inches erect. If you want bigger, you're gonna have to go do some Lara Croft level dungeon running and find yourself that lucky dude with the appropriate sized salami.

No meat sleeve is worth mutilating your man spear.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yes you are... If it was that much of an issue, it shouldn't of got to the point of fiance... And would you alter your body as an ultimatum if he demanded you get a breast or ass enlargement as a requirement to marrying you? Do him a favor, and end it and let him find someone that will love, accept, and respect him for who and what he is, which you obviously don't... You're making your love/relationship conditional and that's not how a real/healthy relationship should be...

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

Yes and it's quite disrespectful to belittle the man you claim to love like that. On top of that you are saying his penis is more important than him as a person. How would you feel if he said he wouldn't marry you unless you had your vagina tightened?

[Daniela1982]

That's ok, he probably wouldn't want to marry a Troll anyway.

I bet your dick is smaller than his.

[p043k3j]

Yes, that is horrible !

[Shortman70]

Young lady you're the most shallow, self serving, cock pocket I've ever had the displeasure to be around. How much money does he have? What do you bring to this union except a wore out, saggy twat with absolutely no value. please don't waste his time and yours. You know you're only gonna make it about a year and your gonna banging something else, trying to move up the food chain. Do him a better, leave now while you have some grace and slime your way down the dock. He must really have some money that you are trying to get your hands on. Just move on find yourself a baby 🤳 holding 🍏and be happy and leave this one alone.

[abc3643]

Yes, you are wrong.
Why?
You are too immature to be married!

YOU NEVER SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN ENGAGED TO BEGIN WITH!
You resolve shit like this BEFORE you get engaged!

Terminate this engagement immediately!
You have a lot of growing up to do.

[jshm2]

Yes. He's dodging a bullet not marrying you.

[Kaneki05]

I am confused, if you won't marry him why would you say yes when he asked to marry you?
A fiancé means the question has already been a yes.
Seems more dumb than wrong.

[Bricealan]

Yes. How would you like it if he told you to get a breast enhancement. ?

[Dargil]

You should find someone else. His priority. is wrong.

[AviatorTom]

Marriage is about a lot more than sex. If his penis size is really that important to you, break off the engagement and find a guy with a bigger member.

[Shotia322]

Yes get someone els

[Shamiah02]

Yes. You're demanding he changes his body with surgery to make you happy.
If his penis bothers you that much just find someone else.

[Finchie40]

Then how did you get engaged to him , were you his first and then he put a ring on your finger lol

[cth96190]

You could buy him an extension sheath. 🤣
He will not feel anything, but you will feel as though you are being resized by a porn star.
You can buy those extension sheaths in various sizes.

[Browneye57]

He would have to be a complete moron to take up with a woman like you. The term 'wrong' is just so misplaced here. Insanely wrong. NEXT!

[TheBMG]

Maybe you need to have your vag tightened up. I mean really? You got engaged probably knowing this information. Very shallow of you to ask this of him. You should not have gotten engaged in the first place.

[Texaskid1]

No.

A women should always demand that her man have a huge cock.

[Slayerrrrrrr]

How tight are you though?

[JacobRogers]

The big question is how small is it?

[Iron_Man]

Oh yeah big-time

[Jamie05rhs]

No; you're not wrong. If you want that man, and you love him with all of your heart and soul, and the penis is the only thing standing in the way, then I think it's a reasonable thing to request.

[Jamie05rhs]

All of the people yelling at you are overreacting. Please ignore their hateful comments.

[SteveSmith1985]

Whoa... dude... you're the guy whose views on many things seem to be quite similar to my own. This is the first time you and I have TOTALLY disagreed about a question (that I can remember anyway). I mean... I'm not trying to engage you in some long debate. You're a dude. You see this differently. Fair enough. But... my comments are VERY much meant as to be read as "yelling". Not hateful, but shocked disbelief. II am BLOWN AWAY that you (or ANY guy to be honest) would take the position you're taking. I would have bet that 100% of guys would be in agreement on this one.

[Jamie05rhs]

@SteveSmith1985. It's okay. I totally don't mind you disagreeing with me. I always welcome debate on all topics. (Well, most.). And I think you're cool, so of course I will listen to your view.

[Jamie05rhs]

This is why I see this the way I do: I myself have a small penis. But I don't see it as something to be proud of. It's a deficiency. There are many other great aspects of myself and things that I can be proud of. But this isn't one of them. So I will in no way be offended if a girl says she doesn't like my penis. If she wants me to try to improve that part of my body, I see no reason not to try.