My wife refuses to give me head. I keep good hygiene and shower often. I help around the house and with the kids. I’ve asked her why and she says she just doesn’t like it and gets mad that I ask her. What hurts me is I know for a fact she’s given her exes head before but she can’t give her husband head.
How is this a surprise to you now at this stage in your life? Like if head is so important to you how is she your wife before you found out this deal breaker? Did you 2 rush the wedding or something?
Maybe it reminds her of an ex too much.
maybe it went wrong once like a ex shoved it down her throat till she almost passed out.
Maybe she never liked it but was desperate for approval but now she's comfortable with herself and feel the need to prove herself to anyone anymore.
Maybe she just preferes sex.
He'll I know I don't really like going down on my girl much, I can understand why some women don't want to suck on a hairy or stubble penis that has been used to pee and stuffed in your sweaty underwear all day.
Maybe it's cause she opened up about it and now you basiclly just see her as a blowjob machine.
Like forbear dude just cause someone does something once to see if they like it dosent make them that or mean they have to do it ever again.
Like if your wife ever made out with a female friend and did some heavy petting, experimenting and decide she dosent like it she wouldn't be labeled a lesbian.
Hmmm. As a woman, I’ve always understood oral sex is something men really enjoy and usually expect in a relationship. So I’ve always made an effort to perform it enough to keep them happy. That being said, not all women are agreeable to doing that. It makes some women feel degraded and others are just repulsed by the idea of it. She may have done it for an ex but it may have been under extreme pressure or other unpleasant circumstances. Those past experiences might be why she won’t do it now. It’s also possible there’s something about you that factors into this. It’s a shame she doesn’t explain herself better. Communication can solve many things. Anger is only going to push her further away from you though. My advice is this, begin by explaining yourself first…. the idea that she was willing to be intimate with past partners in a way she won’t with you and how that makes you feel. Be non-confrontational and ask if she can help you understand why. Hopefully she will give you a more detailed answer so that, even if it’s not something that can be fixed, you can at least understand the why. If you can’t get a satisfactory reason or she won't discuss it, then you’ll probably just have to accept that it’s never going to happen for her own reasons.
First off, that kind of reaction and thinking would make me want to give head less.
Now, I think it would be good if you had an open conversation about this with your wife.
Maybe she has always disliked giving head. Maybe it's because of something you do or don't do while she has given head. Maybe it's because you don't give oral yourself.
The thing is, we don't know the reason.
Don't make her feel like it's something she HAS to do. Maybe talk about what can help in the situation, and if there's something that can improve her experience.
I assume you want to be s involved in her pleasure as you want her to be involved in yours, right?
And remember, don't just attack her when talking about it, be calm and hear her out.
I would not be "mad" she is ur wife after all. We all have different likes and dislikes when it comes to sex and she just may not be into bjs. Do u go down on her? Maybe ask her for some wonderful lubed up handjobs... they are almost as good. How often do u two have sex? Maybe try to increase the frequency to help you chill out?
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It's fine to be mad but maybe try to find out why she doesn't want to give you head. Try to explain to her why you want it... have an open conversation about it...
My ex insulted me on my skill... but wouldn't tell me how to do it better so I quit giving them... plus he never gave me oral either so fuck em...
Yes wrong. She's said she doesn't like it. In sex that should be the end of it.
Flip this on it's head: let's say she liked having her ass licked by you or she liked pegging you. Would you want her to get mad at you because you didn't like those things?
Or you can respect her and not bug her about it ☺️
The first thing. You should ask her and not hide from it. You might also consider rationing cunnilingus if you are doing it.
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