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I am in my 30s. Big deal.
People start wondering why is she still single? Woman, your biological clock is ticking! Get a man! But men my age like younger women. What do you want me to do? Go out there and force a guy to impregnate me so I can satisfy your curiosity? My answer is no! Leave me alone. Let me tell you something: this is my body, my life, my choices. So fuck off.
Just because I am out of the calendar doesn't mean I'll be a single, old woman living with 40 cats in the comforts of my TV and my vibrator for the rest of my life. Or maybe I will be in the future but so what? People forget there are other men out there who thinks I still got it and those are the men younger than me!
Don't get me wrong. I like men my age, older guys even but I'd definitely be flattered if a man younger than me takes a liking of me. Wow! I could be his mother or auntie but hey he's showing me he is attracted to me and that is just mind blowing. Who am I to say no especially the man in question is showing some serious moves?
The best part, the feeling is mutual!
It doesn't seem to faze them a bit. Is this the new trend? Are you looking for a part time sugar momma coz I am nobody's Sugar Mommy. I can give you sugar but no honey I am not financing you. Get a job and maybe we can get together and I can ride you. I mean we can both ride off to the sunset. LOL. I am no desperate old hag who will take whatever I can just because I am not getting any. Nah uh.
I am still a person. I won't expect you to marry me. I may not be able to provide you kids from my birth canal (although I still can if I choose to) but I can provide you a love/companionship girls your age may or may not be able to provide. Treat me good, I'll treat you better. My age shouldn't be a factor for you to take me into consideration of dating me or just a part of your fantasy. I deserve love too. But certainly I am not begging for it. Either love me or just leave me alone. At my age, I already know what I want. I have no time for guessing games. Are we doing this or not? <3
Thanks for the time reading.
Xo's Pinay_Ako
What Girls & Guys Said
28 69Great MyTake @Pinay_ako! You'll find your younger man to ride 😉
Older women are more attractive in that they are confident in what they do. They know what they are doing in their life. Likewise, they are over the party phase.
That doesn't mean they are not ready to party either ;)
That is true. Lol. But they party with class, tastefully, and that is very sexy.
Party tastefully? Who the hell parties "tastefully?" All you good men judging young women, when you yourselves surf the net for porn and drink twleve beers in one night. Please, tastefully.
@DianaWest ok. Lol. No I don't drink, if I do it's a nice red at a networking event. Do I watch porn? When I'm stressed, but so do women according to recent studies. Let's keep the emotional intelligence in check! :)
I am just saying what **some **young men do. I haven't been to a single "wild" party in my life, because my parties are done at home, with my law textbook. I mean, men have no issue putting all women into one box and labelling it "wild and mentally challenged." So why should I have an issue assuming that that is what men do?
Great read. I couldn't have said it better.
Very interesting my take.
I loved this! I am into older women myself and you have proven why I am into older women.
Such confidence and security in yourself. You know what you want and you're mature. You are established. There is no time for drama and unnecessary bullshit. Mutual feelings (no gigolo-ing or gold diggery). And we don't care about the age difference! F yeah!
Your age number might increment in each year but that doesn't mean you or the women are expiring.
Enjoy your time lady and take care :)
this was my favorite line in ur take
"My answer is no! Leave me alone. Let me tell you something: this is my body, my life, my choices. So fuck off."
I've dated a number of older women over the years. Now I'm old and I want to get with a younger woman. 😉😂
Nice Take.
Good take , this benefits younger men too , as there are significantly more males than females , esp in the younger age groups , due to male heavy birth ratios , this does not even out until the late 40's /50's , an often overlooked fact. Also a lot of younger women have been brainwashed by the misadrist " media " and in some cases , colleges / universtites , and end up negative to at least some degree towards men. Enjoyed older women in my late teens / 20's. My own mother had " toy boys " later in life too !!
I love this take.
I think you mean honey but not sugar darl.
Interesting take!
As long as a woman takes care of herself, looks good and we have chemistry, age is just a number in my opinion
Women past 30 are usually not in their prime because they don’t take care of themselves or having kids has been rough on their body. But a woman that takes care of herself can look good til she’s 60
First of all, the whole biological clock thing is biologically unsound.
The study that women need to have kids before 30 was done in France IN THE 1700s. Of course you needed to have kids by 30, you'd probably die by 40. lol.
http://www.BBC.com/news/magazine-24128176
Second, I like older women because they are sexy, and over the BS of being a young girl. lol.
Plus, sex is pretty damn good. lol
My current girlfriend is four years older than I am, and I sometimes forget that she is. :P
Actually hon, the whole biological clock thing is not unsound. Most women hit menopause in theri late 40s early 50s, with some even hitting menopause in their late 30s. And often times, a woman who has a kid past 35 is considered an "at risk" pregnancy for good reason. I myself want a career in law, but i also plan to have my first child by 30 and second child by 32. Maybe a 3 a year later.
@DianaWest Did you read the BBC report? Doesn't "at risk" means it doubles the risk. If so, then it doubles from.5% to 1%. Sarcastic WOW! Also, I have a relative who has had children at 35 years old and they're fine... strong even. I have a cousin who's had children in their 40s. Maybe those scientist need to look at MORE than just age, like health, lifestyle, environment, etc. because the age thing alone is debunked.
ummm, no, I am pretty sure that it is not debunked. The older a woman gets, the less fertile her eggs are, which poses issues for her and the baby. Of course, that is not to say she can't have a perfectly healthy pregnancy, but I would prefer to not go past 35. And also, I risk the chance of hitting menopause, and then when the hell will I have a baby, hmmm? Unless I freeze my eggs, but no, that prospect just bothers me.
@DianaWest What makes you think you are at risk? If you think so, stay healthy, talk to your doctor now about the future. Again, I know women who've had their first kids at 35 and 37. I don't think you need to rush your life, because you don't know what it has in store for you.
Dude, by the time I am 40, I don't think it is rushing. Man, I really wanna settle down before my mid thirties. So i'll be content. i'll have a career, a family, a home and children. that is my personal opinion. I don't judge others for their life choices. If a woman wants to wait to have a child when she is 45, that's totally fine. My mom had my baby sister when she was 39. I just personally wouldn't want to wait that long, especially since I love children and plan on having 3.
@DianaWest Well, Good luck to you and your plans. I hope they work out. Take care
Thanks, same to you too. :)
This is only going to last for two more years, because you'll hit the wall.
ROOAAAOAAR
You go tiger go get em!!
and I feel disgust when I see our local group of prego 20s females swimming on my natural habitat the swimming pool.
are you Asian by any means? that would explain things there are some kinds of women who have those cute (more likely childish) features and tend to age well.
younger guys won't stay for too long usually because of the age gap but as you said there is something like a mature and evolved kind of relationship waiting I've witnessed it myself when I had a girl 4 years older than me. there was no bullshit involved on both ends it can be a neat deal to have a few good years together I say good luck on your end
Yes I am Asian.
are you living in an Asian country right now? I've watched on youtube that in china men see older women as waste (or something similar) so my bet is you're living in a western country. there's like a vid on why white males have yellow fever it's quite interesting
@OpenWine Actually relationships between younger guys and older women tend to be more sincere and longer lasting I think than ones between younger women and older men. The older man are just trying to get their mojo back and the younger women want the guy's security.
@ManOnFire did you read what you just wrote? it's the same but role switched. do you have a better explanation why that is so with younger guys to older women
@OpenWine The majority of younger men looking for older women are not interested in a woman's money or life status for security, and while you do have older women only wanting younger men for sex that actually is not as common as it's portrayed.
@ManOnFire I didn't get to see a gigollo that often yea
Oh dear! I am so badly attracted to mature women (above 30), it makes me filled with wild passionate thoughts in my head. Unfortunately very few women are really so confident about their sexuality and preferences. I am really finding you confident and this trait in a woman turns me on like hell.
I always fantasise being with a woman older than me because I tend to be submissive and she would take the charge, ahhh that is making me hard right now, damn!
I wish all women were like you...
You’re still young to me 😊 , I never got the reference on why they call them cougars actually but nothing wrong with dating who you like no matter the age as long as they are considered legally an adult
great mytake.
I enjoy dating chicks in their 30s. You've got something to talk about and the sex is always great.