Anal fingering = desire for anal sex?

guys i was getting fingered by my boyfriend and he started rubbing all the wetness everywhere and started to go near my anus, I've never been fingered in my bum before so i was a bit nervous, he slipped a finger in and i actually surprisingly enjoyed it. he kept asking if i liked it. guys/girls help me, i never thought he’d be into anal stuff, do you think if he does this he might want to experiment with anal sex?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • For me, anal fingering greatly enhances a blowjob or handjob. It is unlike anal intercourse in that the "instrument" is a narrow finger purpose directed to massage the anal entrance and prostate rather than a wide randomly thrusting penis. You don't have a prostate but your anal entrance is packed with nerves. I went a step further with one girl and gave her first orgasm. If you want to investigate anal play, try this.
    Four-fingering. Turning foreplay into the main event. ↗

  • He's definitely interested in anal and is trying to get a feel of you are open to it. If you take your time and prep properly, you may find you like that too just like fingering.

    • Thanks for MHGuy!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Possibly. My advice is: ask him about it. If you're not grossed out by the thought and you enjoyed anal fingering, then chances are you might like it.
    Why not talk to him about anal sex, ask him if he really wants it? Voice any concerns you have with it. And if he's into it, and you're not opposed, why wouldn't you just give it a go? For me, it turned out to be very pleasurable, but I would've never known if I hadn't tried it.

  • I think if your boyfriend was given the chance he'd definitely wouldn't turn you down. If you enjoyed getting fingered it being your first time you'll no doubt enjoy the other.
    I don't think there's many guys that wouldn't want anal sex, all they know is the hole is tighter and any wetness back there usually comes from them.

    • Very practical advise. She has obviously thought about taking the dick up there, and has the desire. With a little education, everything should fall in place nicely.

  • Sure he will want it.! Just make sure you are in the best position, with your knees up by your boobs. Makes entry easier and it should be pain free.

    • Sounds like your first anal went well? That is awesome when it happens.

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  • 100%!

  • I believe that EVERY guy is into Anal stuff, lol

    • why are guys so into it? what’s hot about it?

    • There is no real explanation for it to be honest, but the grip is always tighter in the bum lmao

    • Speak for yourself. I am not a poop dick.

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  • Hi! I'm Floyd. Yes.

  • He definitely want to try it with you.

  • For sure

  • Yes he wants to do Anal

  • I think yes. He want anal sex.

    • i remember him asking me though if i’d try it and i said I don't know it’s not soemthing i really want to do but if someone wanted to maybe i’d try it and he agreed. was he just saying that because i did and he might’ve been a bit embarrassed?

    • Roll over. Spread your cheeks. Say one word -- LICK. Nature takes its course after that.

  • My view is that there is almost no better feeling than having a finger in a well-lubricated woman's vagina and her anus at the same time. I'd say its double the pleasure for the man. Women seem reluctant to have the anal area penetrated but often respond to a light caress in the area with a well-lubricated digit, resulting in a relaxation of the sphincter and allowing, and enjoying, the sensation of a slight insertion. It is also recommended during intercourse as a finger in the anus at the same time as penile thrusting can prove very satisfying for the woman. Worth trying as a prelim to actual anal sex, take it a step at a time. Most men seem to want to try it at least.

  • Yes he will want to explore anal sex. I’m not an anal guy at all, but it does feel good getting fingered there like when I’m getting a nice bj or HJ and she slides a finger in.

  • Just tell him you want him to do that.

    • I don't know if i want to try anal, i just want an opinion on if people can read the situation and help me figure out what he wants😂

    • Why you don't like it? It sounds like you like it. You'll get use to it after a while. But, no your boyfriend doesn't sound like an asshole and will not force you to do anything you're not comfortable with.

    • you’re right he won’t force me to do anything. i think i would try it. i just want to maybe say it to him one day and i hope it excites him because he wants to do it. i don’t want to be embarrassed if he doesn’t want to though

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