Guys, Anal for your birthday?

My boyfriend has a birthday coming up and I'm planning a weekend gateway he has been mentioning anal recently im not into it but he mentions it here and there and try's sometimes. I was thinking of maybe letting him do it on his birthday. He knows I don't like it but I was wondering if that would be a good thing to do? I'm doing lots of other things for his big day also.
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  • It's the perfect present if you combine it with a copy of this My Take:

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a6855-comfortable-anal-sex-for-beginners-a-guide-to-the-first-time

    A good time will be had by ALL!! You could also give him some home made coupons good for sex acts of his choice. Maybe he'd like to spank that naughty bare bottom before he reams it. There's nothing sexier than getting you "adjusted" and then in face down doggy, groping hot, red cheeks and using them to spread and devour your tight little anus.

    What do you think?

  • I can see why you might want to do something selfless for your guy for his birthday. But suppose it doesn't end well for you as in it hurts like hell and leaves you torn and bleeding (yes that can happen). Is he (or you for that matter) really gonna be left with wonderful memories of his birthday surprise?
    I think it's safer to go with the more classic steak, BJ, action-adventure movie and off to bed for more.

    • Haha okay thanks! I guess it's an NFL/weekend trip and lots of sex plan instead!

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  • he would be thrilled, if that's what you are asking, yes. But I think it might also lead to more problems if you aren't actually into it. Let him once and he'll just want it even more within a week. Right now he likely assumes it is off the table and is coping with it, but introduce the possibility and the elation will cripple all of those coping mechanism, resulting in a huge let-down when he finds out you only did it for him and got no enjoyment out of it.

    • Thanks! If I choose to do it I will tell him it's a one time thing!! He is usually pretty good about caring how I feel so if he knows I don't like it I don't think he would keep asking

    • That sounds like a good plan, but you still need to be cautious. No matter what he says about understanding your feelings on it, at the back of his mind he will be desperately hoping that you love it, and he will be let down when he discovers that you don't. So, it's important not to feign interest while it's happening. Definitely don't fake an orgasm. Try not to moan or anything - not even in discomfort, as his wishful thinking might interpret that as pleasure. On the other hand, if you actually are into it, by all means be into it, but try to imagine doing it again as routine before you "let yourself go," in that regard. Again, if the thought turns out not to bother you as much as you thought it would, then grunt, moan, wiggle, and cum as often as you can. He'll be thrilled. Of course, this is all the 'worst-case' scenario. I don't know your boyfriend, so it's quite possible that upon having anal he'll discover that it's not as good as he imagined it would be, and stop wanting it.

  • I wouldn't be interested.

  • honestly i like the idea of trying anal but i´m not a fan of having sexual favors as a birthday present. if you don´t want to try it. having this as a "present" makes me feel bad about it.

  • Sounds like he is interested, so yeah, sounds like a nice treat.

  • You're the ideal girlfriend to make such a present.

    • I really try my best! 😊

    • If only more girls were like you.

    • Aww thank you ☺️ It's all about you get what you give! He treats my like a queen so I treat him like a kind (:

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  • you don't have to let him do something you don't like just because its his bday

    • I know that's why I usually just say no and he is super good about it he stops! I was just wondering if I should just let him do it one night since it's about him not me

    • it would be could for a treat. but if I was you I would be worried that he would want it more often

    • Dang okay guess I have to figure something else out thanks!

  • i don't agree with premarital sex. with that mention, make sure you're clean, have him massage your cheeks, kiss and lightly suck your ass, then slowly edge his tongue in. have him keep going til you say you are ready. you might like it.

  • That would be the best birthday I would have ever had

  • I say you do it that will be a nice surprise. Specially if he's been trying I know how us guys are once in a while we try to stick it in there right.

    • Oh yah he does it and I move it and he just laughs. Would you expect it from then on or would you accept it being a one time thing?

  • Go for it, just be sure to have a lot of lube.
    Be sure to relax during it or it will hurts worse

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