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Anal only? Good or bad?

How would you feel if your partner wanted an anal only sex life? I find vaginal penetration quite painful but I don't find anal painful, would any guys care about only having anal sex?
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  • Si I honest get down with male on woman anal. Like I love it honestly, but the thought of never getting the vag again? That terrifies me!!!

    But sure, I would give it a go with you someone like that, but I think I would be looking for some vag action after a month or so of just straight anal all the time... but it could work out, I guess.

    • Thank you for answering, that's the situation I'm in with my current partner he misses vaginal but I feel uncomfortable when we do it maybe I just need to relax more I've spoken to my doctor about it and that's all they said it's probably all in my head

    • Well, any woman or man with any type of sexual insecurities is unattractive to me. But I do love anal, so I can't say I would just overlook it all together, especially if I felt truly emotionally attached to the woman. But if she is willing to all everything else but vag, I would try to work it out with her. I honestly do not know, I never gone without vag, and I really like both... but if you make up for it in other ways, I guess I would be willing to compromise. But I will be honest, most guy love vaginal sex, and seriously appreciate anal... but its usually a combo of both that gets us all fired up.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I like it! My girlfriend and slowly got into it a year ago and we really enjoy it as a change from traditional sex. I now even like it with guys too. However it does not replace vaginal sex. I really prefer vaginal and would be bummed if my girlfriend didn’t want that anymore

    • Thanks for your help

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm sorry vaginal sex is painful for you. Do you have vaginismus? I have read that couples where the women has that condition often turn to anal sex for intimacy.

    For me, I love vaginal sex so I could never give it up. I do enjoy anal sex too, but I wouldn't want to do it every time.

  • And you don't have any problem with anal? I like anal once he gets all the way inside me but getting it in hurts. Is your vagina too tight or too small?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Not normal or healthy

  • I'd be happy to oblige on an anal-only basis.

  • I’ve dated a girl that would not have anal or oral (receiving), longer term with the relationship the just having vaginal sex got to be a stress on the relationship. I have gay guy friends that basically have anal and oral as the only options and they seem okay with it. I did have a month or so of just anal with a girlfriend, that also got a bit ground hog day, there was a lovely front door but I was only allowed in the back door. I like the variation but respect that people have their own needs and desires.

    there are online resources about anal only lifestyles.

    https://www.analonlylifestyle.com

  • I'm not sure what particular style of anal sex you're referring to, but virtually every sexual relationship I've had with women over the past twenty plus years has been an anilingus only arrangement, in which case our sole form of sexual interaction consists of me performing anilingus for her regularly.

  • I'd be don't with it.

    • That was supposed to read "good with it." 🤦‍♂️

  • I'd not be cool with it and I'd just know that I'm not into dating women who are into it, respectfully and that's just me. 👍😬

  • I love anal so that sounds fine to me. I can't say for sure that I will always like it, though, but dont know why I ever wouldn't.

  • Yeah eventually that's going to get old. Same with no oral or no anal or anything else limiting. The greater concern is WHY is it so painful, because physiologically that's not supposed to be the case. I'd explain that to your obgyn and see what's going on there.

  • I don't see why this would be a problem.

  • I remember a friend that his gurl only did anal with him and no lie it just all sounded wack, not like I know how anything feels but to not be able to have normal sex with your girlfriend seems kinda wack.

  • Only anal sex, can cause problems after a time, due to the stretching of the anal sphincter, over time and can lead to incontinence... I have had anal only with one partner some time ago and I liked it and so did she, but the caution is still there.

    • It can also cause anal fissures and it increases the risk of anal cancer.

  • Nope it's hurt

  • They can pursue it if they want, just not with me.

    • Thanks for the answer 😊

  • I have never taken the Hershey Highway and never will.
    https://th.bing.com/th/id/OIP.pjHoJfA8ygc4yNhDTvykuwHaE8?pid=ImgDet&rs=1

  • Does this mean no oral?

    • No oral is fine I enjoy that just means no vaginal everything else is still okay

    • That seems reasonable.

  • ... Look I would like anal every now and again, but anal only is weird. . . . . It's like, what is your problem? No thanks.

  • I can't answer. Nvr put my penis in a girls anus. But you do you.

  • I have never had anal sex. The vagina was made for sex and childbirth why not be happy with that? I would be happy with the front door all the time! What have your boyfriends wanted most of the time?

    • I only say anal because I don't find any pleasure in vaginal, my current partner is okay with it but he said he would like to do vaginal too. Which is what has spawned my curiosity

    • Do you use lube during vaginal sex? Try more foreplay or have him go down on you first.

    • Yes we've tried lube etc and lots of foreplay and it feels great until he tries to go inside then it doesn't I've spoken to my doctor about it too and they said that nothing seems to be physically wrong with me so it's probably all in my head I think I just need to learn to relax more

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  • I would leave him. I hate anal sex and only do it for him.

    • Thanks for the answer, I enjoy anal a lot so it's not really a problem for me it's more that he enjoys vaginal sex and I tend to not enjoy it the majority of the time

    • Why do you love anal?

  • I couldn't do just anal sex. I need to get some pussy

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