Anal sex doesn’t feel good anymore with him , why?

[Anonymous]

This past weekend my boyfriend had placed reserved a hotel room for us. I unfortunately got my period on Friday but we still went , we decided to have sex either way ( anal sex ) we done it in the past but for the most part we don’t do it. When my partner and I first started doing anal sex it was a bit painful and very tight and his dick was really hard also but I eventually enjoyed it and had pleasure. Like I said we don’t usually have anal sex but when we do is because I’m on my period. We been together for 10 years now. I just turned 27 and he turned 30. On Saturday we had anal sex and it doesn’t feel the same. Is almost like I can’t feel him. He doesn’t get as hard like before and it making me feel insecure. If anything u should be feeling him even more on anal because it’s a tighter hole. I notice that he gets softer when he is penetrating me. He still hard but gets let’s hard if that makes sense. I didn’t enjoy anal sex like before and I didn’t ask him If he liked it. I did make him cum the couple times we did it but I don’t understand why am I not getting the same pleasure

[Avcfhcic]

It isn't something you always do and maybe after the initial squeeze and effort to make him fit, you've probably desensitized a bit.
But I think it should still feel good, does conventional sex still feel good?
Maybe he found it nice at first but something turns him off slightly, he's hard because sex but not as hard because of something.

Talk to him about anal and whether he likes it or just does it and see what he thinks about it all!

[Anonymous]

He wasn’t as hard as usual for that one time, or lately in general?

[Asker]

Lately. Been happening for months

[Opinion Owner]

Could be stress, age, etc. has he been acting distant? If all else is normal it could just be a medical issue.

[DonkeyDan]

Why don't you just have vaginal sex while you are on your period? It is great for both parties, just put some towels down.

[Asker]

We did with condoms but I squirted blood out and my partner wasn’t having it lol

[DonkeyDan]

Oh he's a wimp lol

[UniquelyBasic]

Anal sex was a novelty for you, something taboo and new which made it feel pleasureable.

[Sabretooth]

maybe you just weren't in the mood.

[jimmy2]

He must had gor some poop on his dick lol

[jimmy2]

It like a 19 year old noy who ask on here that he licked his girlfriend butt hole and ask how do you get the taste out of my mouth lol

[Asker]

No accident happened

[Anonymous]

Perhaps due to diminishing libido with age playing part.

[Anonymous]

The pleasure is more in your head than your ass. That's where you need to focus.