Anal sex during your period?

My current boyfriend gets me to have sex all the time even when I have my period. I told me I don’t want to have sex during that time but he insists and because I love him and don’t want to loose him we do everything we would normally do but instead of him going into my vagina I he goes anal all the time. He wants sex even on my most heavy days. I’m not the greatest fan off it and at times it hurts and I mean it really hurts but he says I have to put up with it because it part of being a women in a relationship with a man who is like him. (Who gets so horny all the time)

Is this something other women experience and what do you do about it?
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  • You're really 17 years old? And somehow you owe regular sex to a guy, but you're not married to him? Frankly I'm shocked you would put yourself in this type of arrangement in the first place. What happened to the 'strong and independent woman'?

    So here's a few things that come to mind...
    1. You don't owe him sex, it's supposed to be of mutual pleasure. If what he's doing causes you pain he should and is obligated to STOP immediately.
    2. Plenty of couples have sex during 'shark week' - you do it in shower or put a towel down. I'm told orgasms work wonders for menstrual cramps.
    3. If you enjoy participating in anal sex then carry on. If you don't, he's either doing it wrong or he needs to find another outlet. NO ONE is obligated to ANYONE for anal sex, FOR ANY REASON. PERIOD.
    4. It's time for you two to have a sit-down adult conversation about what's acceptable to both and what isn't. This pressuring and threatening needs to end, NOW.
    5. If you two can't come to some kind of mutually beneficial outcome, then consider it's just not a match. This is your ENTIRE duty, or job if you will, in dating - to be able to make this determination. YOU'RE FALLING DOWN ON THE JOB!

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  • What you are describing is physical and emotional abuse. That is not love, and it's not because of a sexual need. it's because, apparently, has no difficulty abusing you, to get pleasure for himself. He's being very selfish. You really ought to seriously dumping him. No woman should put up with abuse. .

Most Helpful Girls

  • First let me say that sex is never something you "have to put up with." Without consent it's sexual assault.

    Moreover if he actually loves you he would respect your boundaries & limitations. From what you describe it seems like it's all about him, & that doesn't make for a good relationship.

    Ultimately you have to decide if you're willing to go along with it & whether what you get is worth what you put into it.

  • It isn’t your responsibility to give him everything he wants. If not having sex while your on your period would end the relationship then that relationship isn’t worth having. You have needs as well as he does and if one of those needs is to not have sex while on your period, he should respect that.

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  • Im not into period sex nor anal sex. I’m into, “his ass will just have to wait for sex until my period goes off in about a week”. After that, then maybe we can get it vaginally poppin

    Anal sex during your period?
  • What an ass. He does not deserve what you go through for him.

  • Just tell him No and to keep his dick away from you.

    he can go wank.

    Put your big girls pants on and tell him to fuck off.

  • Get him a fleshlight and tell him this is all he's getting when your on your period and if it's not enough it's all he's going to get from you for a while!

  • I would rather have messy period sex then have anal. That's just me personally though. Do whatever makes you comfortable and dont let him force you into anything.

    • Give me vaginal sex heavy flow included

  • Relationships are about way more than sex. Sex (of any kind) is the icing on the cake. He just wants the icing. Take the cake elsewhere and the icing will taste even better for you too.

  • If you don’t want to do it, then don’t. If he respects your choice, then he won’t push it. If he doesn't respect your choice, then you’re better off without him.

  • That’s terrible! Tell him to be happy with a blowjob or wait till after your period’s over.

  • He sounds awful. Leave him.

  • If you don't want to have sex then don't have sex. If e doesn't like it then it's time to dump him. He doesn't sound like much of a prize anyway.

  • If you don't like it tell him you don't want to do it again. A good guy will respect your wishes. If you're feeling up to it consider giving him a hand job or blowjob if he promises to do whatever you want after your period.

  • Sounds like rape

  • Would a blowjob not solve the issue faster

    • I do that already but he wants more

  • Your health matters a lot... May be you should prevent that without being violent about it... He may understand your views...

  • He sounds like a douche bag, you should only do anal if you like it and want to.

  • With due respect to your relationship and understanding, I would believe that he should understand when it's not comfortable for you

    To me, sex should be pleasurable to both instead of been an act just to please one of the partners or something to be done for to dear of losing someone

  • Vaginal period sex for me all the way.

  • You need to find a new boyfriend

    • Exactly

  • No offense, but kinda crummy that you think you would lose him for not wanting to have sex occasionally on your period.
    Have you thought of giving him a blow job instead?

    • As I said everything else is normal and yes that is also a BJ but he is still very horny and wants more

  • It shouldn't be part of any relationship. If you don't want sex, you shouldn't feel like you have to have it to keep a guy. Now if you forbid him from watching porn or jerking off, then maybe you are basically nonverbally telling him that it's okay with you to have sex with you whenever he wants.

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