Anal sex specialists?

I'm a big fan of anal sex and think it's almost as good as regular if done well. However while most guys do ok few are really going at it. Even the ones who are fantastic at vaginal sex can fall short when doing anal.
Fortunately I know a few guys who prefer anal over vaginal and have become specialists in this field. They aren't huge but have staying power and the sex is out of this world.
Now I know they've converted many an anal sceptic to anal lovers so my question is have you ever changed a girls mind about a sexual practice such as anal simply by being very good at it.
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  • I have converted three girls to anal fanatics who loved getting it up the ass. I like to think I'm pretty good at it, but I would say my specialty is really showing them how amazing it can feel to have an orgasm with something in their ass. That is accomplished with a finger while I give them oral, or with one girl, while she diddled herself on her knees as I fucked her vaginally and either fingered her ass or used a very small vibrator in it.

    From there it's easy to move to larger toys over time and then eventually to full anal sex. Once they associate the feeling of anal stimulation with pleasure in their brains and discover how intense their orgasms are when combined with clitoral stimulation, anal sex itself is a pretty easy sell.

    The problem for most girls, and indirectly the guys in their lives, is that most guys simply have no clue how to properly introduce a girl to anal. They typically think it's just a matter of using lube and taking it slow the first time they shove their dick up the girl's ass. But if the first experience a girl has with anal penetration is having a stiff dick shoved up there... it's gonna hurt for sure and the odds of her enjoying it and wanting to do it again are pretty slim.

    Once I've converted a girl she has always wanted more and asked for it regularly and it's not hard to tell when they are enjoying it, so I like to think I'm a reasonably talented sodomite. But, as a girl who clearly enjoys anal and values a guy who is good at it, I would be interested in your take on what differentiates the guys who are talented anal lovers from the rest. What are you thoughts on that?

  • Years back I met a woman about 10 years younger she was recently divorced from bad marriage she had 2 sons and was in nursing school. All she wanted fro. Me was sex , no dating, no cooking dinners just sex, well I gave it due thought and agreed😁 well shed never been eaten, and despite asking her x had never had anal. She said if I promised to be gentle wed tfy it at some point. A few weeks went past and one evening we were making out and both of us seemed to be very aroused, all of a sudden she moved away and got on all fours and said it was time , telling me to be gentle , I had every intention of doing as she asked, I made sure plenty of lube and was just in , letting her relax my hands held her waist and suddenly. She pushed back hard her butt and my hips. Colliding well aside from nearly finishing me right then, she started moving against me, and a new anal lover was. Orn

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  • I have indeed. In fact, I have taken many vanilla women and successfully moved them to The Dark Side.

  • Quite possibly, yes.
    I am no stranger to anal sex, and as my username suggests I did my research beforehand.

    Most of my past lovers have been skeptical at first, and all but one enjoyed it. That one was neutral, wasn't really interested in it.
    A couple actually preferred it.

    It is good to try new things, but take it slow

  • Well.. If changing one's sexual preference counts aswell, then yes.
    My ex only felt sexually attracted by the female genre,
    Untill I changed/added a few opinions to her sexual ideas.

    PS.: She is "not" with a past friend of mine now (he is male).

  • Absolutely! My best method for changing a girl's mind about anal is my tongue. And I don't mean talking!

    But talking is involved. There is learning. There is experimentation. There is knowing when to back off and try another day. Most important? Just being a good lover in general. If she is orgasming regularly with you -- then I can't imagine that sooner or later she would not want to give it a shot?

    My best "conversion" was with a very petite girl who seemed open -- but was very concerned about fit. So I bought her a "Training Kit" set of butt plugs -- from very small... thinner than a finger... to gradually larger. Played with those for several weeks.

    Then I bought a larger set of anal toys -- and laid them out on my bed. She had the key to my place, so I said -- why not come over early and wait for me?

    She did so. When I came in the door, I was struck by an intense by pleasing look on her face as she sat in my overstuffed ottoman. We kissed and she said "I have one in." From there, anal in almost all its forms and/or positions was a big part of our lives.

  • im good or even great at most aspects of sex but i have to admit that anal is not one of those things... im sure its because i dont really like it and in reality neither do most the women i have had sex with

  • As a man with an incredibly small penis, I have delved deep into the rabbit hole of anal sex and for any of my other brothers packing a short sword, I recommend it.

  • Because you’re so available you know the anal community 💒

  • Ye after a long time of my ex wanting to try but been worried and scared that I would tear her and damage her insides with cock. She just turn over one night and started to finger her own ass then begged to join in and eventually after a good 40 mins finger fucking she just knelt over me and lowered herself on and didn't look back. How ever I have recently seen a lot of women that are wanting to rim fingers guys ass and it looks hot but one I dont have anyone I'm fucking at the min and two dont know if I would let it happen or if I would anyone that would be up4 it

  • I'm a specialist lol.

  • Don't know but I've turned many lesbians into straight women. Corrective rape does wonders.

  • So what makes good anal sex?

  • I’m the opposite side. One girl teach me and trained me anal. Then she converted me from anal hater to anal-lover 😂

  • A guy has to go slow and not just force it in, I love anal, either doing the fucking or a female friend with a strapon doing me. Yes anal feels great if done right.

  • No, but I want take in the butt.

  • I'd wager i'd be the best of the best. Because the secret, is the woman needs to actually be infaturated with her guy and connect with mindfulness, and she should know the only right way to have anal, is not to lie on one's back nor on one's side.

    That's what vaginal missionary is for. But a true anal man, yes "demands" i know how you love that ladies a demanding guy making demands, she get on all fours or on her knees with her elbows as well, at the very least.

    And while thrusting, she occassionally rises up her top-half and making quasi-breast stroke like motions in euphoric rythmn.

    Now that's... an anal specialist. An actual one, purplepoppy. Lilac beats purple :)

    • @purplepoppy every guy thinks they're top shit when they ain't lol. Not to brag. God i love still being a virgin at 26, and without the gayness nor the prison beatings, hurrah for me. Lol :)

  • Yes. We learned together. Now some women ask me to break them in as I know how to be gentle with them too.

  • Very often. It's important not to rush them too quickly. There are some that adapt well, but it takes some actual training. Girth is more important than length in this situation.

  • I never liked until about a year ago and got told was best sex she ever had and I think by the sounds and climax and sheets she was satisfied!!! So I will most definitely be very keen and happy to do again 😊made me satisfied knowing she was 😉

  • I am not sure whether I deserve credit for this or not but I was dating someone who just an Ass to-die-for but she was not open to anal sex, so one time, just to please me, she gave in, her first time (according to her) and from then on, she liked it more and more.

  • what does he do thats so good?

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