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WHY DO ANAL
Girls choose to do anal for a number of reasons such as:
To retain virginity.
To avoid pregnancy.
To expand their sexual experience.
To please their man during that time of month.
Just for kicks.
Many people don't view anal as real sex or see it as a type that lacks the intimacy of vaginal. Many women are more likely to offer anal to a stranger or when cheating on boyfriend for this reason. Men, who tend to be very territorial over vaginas generally don't view a girls ass in the same way and would rather another man fuck you in the ass than in vagina. Others, particularly virgins, see anal as a way of being intimate with their boyfriend. Confused? You're not alone, a lot depends on how and why you're actually having sex.
IS IT SAFE?
If done properly and with a lot of lube then yes it is. You can get minor rectal tearing but remember you're just as likely to get that from passing a large hard stool. Needless to say if you are a little torn hold back a few days. As a rule if you're struggling to have a poo then anal is out the question. Many people say there's a greater risk of catching a STD. These people tend to be religious fanatics who want to ban sex outside of marriage. Anal is no more a STD risk than regular sex.
HOW BIG CAN YOU FIT UP THERE?
The rectum is very stretchy but not that deep. However it is long enough to comfortably accommodate most men. The secret is to make sure you're coming completely empty first, so have a poo before hand.
Now have you ever looked down the toilet and been amazed at a particularly large poo you've just passed? Well if you can pass such a big poo then there's no reason why you can't fit a similar size penis up there.
GETTING PENETRATED
It's often joked that the bottom is an exit and not an entrance. And it should be no surprise that penetration can often be difficult or even impossible on occasions. Luckily most of the time it should slip up without too much hassle if both know what they're doing.
The sphincter will often clamp tight shut if pushed and it can really hurt if a guy tries to enter without warning. Many a girl has been put off anal by some idiot trying to "accidentally" slip it in her ass. It works in porn not real life.
The ass may be a one-way door but you are the owner and can decide when to break that rule. The secret to opening up is to push out. Imagine you're trying to squeeze out a fart, your sphincter will protrude and open up. Do this and hold as his penis touches, you'll feel pressure build then the head will suddenly pop in. There may be a little pain as he first passes your sphincter, at worse its like being flicked with an elastic band but it only lasts a second. Once he's got the head in the rest will slide up very easily, in fact your body will suck him in.
WHAT DOES IT FEEL LIKE HAVING A PENIS UP THERE?
Well first of all it'll feel bigger than it looked, you'll definitely feel filled up. That feeling of fullness is one of the attractions of anal for women. Even if he remains motionless you will feel every ripple and twitch he makes. Your own passage will constrict and relax as it adjusts to being full.
THRUSTING.
There's 2 types of anal sex, sensual lovemaking and getting fucked. The first results in a weird squirmy, wormy sensation that is surprising pleasurable. It's a bit like an internal massage that produces a queasy yet nice stimulus with each thrust. You're very aware of every bump on his penis as it slides back and forth. Just relax and enjoy the ride cos he definitely is. A lot of girls ask what should I be doing? Don't worry, you'll be squirming and writhing enough to make him very happy.
Like regular sex, girls don't alway want romantic sensitive lovemaking. Sometimes we just want or need a good hard fuck. I don't particularly know why but sometimes we just feel the need for a more forceful seeing to. Perhaps it's just an instinctive need to feel taken and dominated. Other times it's just for kicks. 99.9% of the time this will be during a one night stand rather than with a partner. It goes without saying that if you offer anal in a nightclub toilet that he isn't going to take his time or be gentle and it's well worth checking his size first.
I rarely set out with the intention of getting a good hard seeing too. More often than not a good night with friends, plentiful drink and the right atmosphere will ignite the desire for a rougher session.
WHAT DOES ROUGH ANAL FEEL LIKE?
First of all be 100% sure that's what you want and you can handle It. Once he's inside he's not going to stop. Secondly expect some discomfort, even pain, although this shouldn't be agonising. If we think of regular anal like a smoothing massage this will be more like a robust sport type massage. It will lack that pleasurable squirmy feeling and be more a thud, thud, thud knocking inside feeling with intense shaking. You'll often feel you can't take it or wish it was over. Going into a mild state of shock is not unusual especially with guys at the upper end of your limit.
Like a good sports massage it can be uncomfortable during but your left fulfilled and in a state of well being.
ORGASM
Women do not have a prostrate gland and cannot cum from anal alone. So why do so many orgasm during anal? Well for one we will be in high state of arousal. We all know that we can orgasm without vaginal penetration by rubbing our clitoris and this is what's happening during anal. It may be his hand(or hers) or just the fact the clit is rubbing against the bed sheets or even your own panties that can be enough to make you climax.
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