Im not an expert but the best experience I've had is we both gave each other oil body massages so we were basically covered in oil. He put a finger in my bum neways and i go the idea. It was a lot easier than other times because we were so slippery. I think i was on my hands and knees or my belly but its not the position the matters it was the oil lube that made it less painful. It hurts more once he gets excited he will start thrusting faster and faster, but it feels good for me anyways because you know that your giving your man a lot of pleasure. Its a very intense feeling and not something i think i could handle all the time but every once in a while it can be fun. The body massage really helped lube things up though. Neways
The least painful is on your side
Best position would on ur back with your mouth open... I personally hate anal lol and I never understood really y guys or girls would prefer that.. LOL
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Also, froggy is way better than doggy. It is like it sounds -- like playing leap frog. You are on all fours, anus pushed up toward the ceiling, head down. He stands above you and comes down at this angle / -- instead of straight in like this ---->. It takes advantage of the natural curves of your rectum and colon. And instead of clenching off, try pushing out, even if it feels like you need to go. You won't, and the push will help straighten the S curve inside you. Once you get the hang of it, you never want anything else.
Good question. Never tried.
Doggy is your best bet but you can still have good anal in missionary.
I think doggy would be a good starter, you can control how far he goes in and fast.
whatever the position is it will hurt
you just gotta learn it first hand , I say trial by fire and see where it goes
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