First they’re your pubes, what ever style you feel most comfortable with whether that be trimmed, bald, or natural do that. As long as you’re clean and smell good no one mature enough to have sex should say a damn thing. Next if you’re having vaginal sex, make sure she’s actually in the mood, from there kiss her lips, neck, and body to push the envelope a little more, then ofc give one another oral, maybe some caressing. This is the fastest way for me to get properly wet, and without being properly wet sex can be painful for both of you. After that I’d say ask her if she’s ready or if she needs more attention, if she’s ready go slow and pace yourself (unless told otherwise, then good luck) ofc it’s exciting but shit we wanna experience something too😂Also did you guys establish the kind of sex y’all would be having? Or what the other is into?
Wow this is very helpful, I would try my best to excite her and do foreplay as you suggested. Never done oral so not sure how to do it but will try to move my tongue on her vulva. We are planning to have penetrative sex and am really scared. Would use a condom too. Thank you so much!!
For oral focus on the clit, do circles with your tongue, flick ur tongue on it, and experiment with sucking the clit, remember to ask her “is this good?” Tell her to tell u what she likes and wants you to do like,” right there or more pressure“ always be receptive of your partner and what they like. if she’s cool with fingers put one finger in and do a come here motion with decent pressure as your licking/sucking the clit, you can even add two as she gets wetter!! Hope this helps, you’ll be fine and it can only get better from here.
Thank you once again for this valuable advice. Would do per your directions.
Grooming is a plus. It looks more attractive and if you want her mouth down there it’s far more pleasant to not get hair in your mouth. Plus hair traps odors. Shave it or trim it short. After all, we do it for you. Make sure she knows it’s your first time, so her expectations will match the situation. Discuss birth control before anything happens in case she needs you to wear a condom or pull out. Don’t be too proud to take direction from her. And lastly, just be respectful and kind to her…. and stick around for a while afterwards. Don’t run off as soon as you cum. It makes feel like that’s all you wanted from us.
Not sure if she is into oral but I maintain good sexual hygiene even though am all bushy down there. Actually am kinda scared to use anything there fearing cuts hence I never groomed it, but I wash it regularly. She knows that it's my first time and she is fine with it. Am kinda nervous but glad am getting useful suggestions from gals in here. I would do as you told and wouldn't leave after its over.
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Thanks for this. Would use one!! Let me know if there's anything else to be taken care of. Thank you once again!!
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