Most Helpful Guys

  • Relax as much as possible (I know that's hard being your first time, but will make it so much more enjoyable for you). Lots of foreplay so you're nice and wet before penetration. Protection (goes without saying). And make sure he goes slow and takes his time with you. Don't be afraid to communicate with him. Tell him what you want or don't want. And don't have too high expectations. Often the first time isn't "mind blowing" lol, it takes time for the sex to get that way by getting to know each other and experience. That's not to say your first time can't be good, but I think women build it up a lot in their minds, and then get disappointed?

    • communication to learn what each other likes/dislikes before/during encounter.
    • foreplay/during play is highly recommended for both people to use.
    • take it slow at first to get used to and build a rhythm together.
    • make sure to use protection to avoid pregnancy.
    • try to remain relaxed.
    • might be best to start with girl on hot so she can guide him in and ease herself down.
    • My tricks of the trade

Most Helpful Girl

  • Okay, so first make sure everything is consensual. Take things slow, lots of foreplay. If you do oral for them, they should be doing oral on you. Lots of touching, exploring, go at your own pace. Remember contraception and take it slow. I’ll be honest, at first penetration can hurt, but using fingers first usually helps. The more you have sex the more comfortable you become and eventually there’s no pain left. For myself, pain was gone by the second time. At first take it slow, communicate any pain and try to increase the pace to your own comfort. Overall, its trial and error but you’ll get the hang of it eventually

    • If whoever you’re with doesn’t take your pleasure as an absolute priority, they are not worth your time. Make sure they respect you, your body and your sexual autonomy

    • Thanks for the response

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  • Kind of need to determine your baseline. What do you know what do you think?

  • *Plenty of lube. Don't trust nature.
    *Plenty of foreplay. Fingering will help open you up.
    *if he can pass Two fingers, it should go fairly easy. One, he needs to GO easy.
    *Relube before he goes in.
    *He should enter you in several short pushes, each a little farther.
    *The last one may pinch and then give. That's the head passing in.
    *Have him stay in and enjoy the ride. Pulling out and reentering will pinch and give again. This will fade over several sessions.

  • Stay calm and do it slowly in the starting.

  • A lot of foreplay and do cowgirl

  • Lots of foreplay, get sexually aroused, and soaking wet!
    Use protection, and try to relax.
    (Getting on top you can control how deep you let him inside you)!

  • Yes, my advice is to take it slowly and use plenty of lube

  • Only do something that you feel 100 percent comfortable doing and if it becomes to painful let him know and my advice use lube for your first time a water based one and a condom 😉

  • WAIT!!!

  • Find someone experienced, so that they can take it slowly, carefully, gently with plenty of foreplay first.

  • Lots of foreplay and just relax.

  • Make sure you're MARRIED to that person, taking it slow and easy, with no expectations for success or failure

  • Make sure that you're ready for it, lay down, relax, wet, and protections

  • Wrap it up

  • Use birth control and enjoy yourself. Communication makes for great sex. Condoms aren't that reliable and don't feel good for either person. Get reliable birth control and enjoy feeling your boyfriend instead of a balloon.

  • Dont be shy
    Just do what ever you feel and do what he says


    If you are giving him a bj ask him if he would like to cum in your mouth
    Try different positions , doggy the most


    and all the best

  • Make sure he has a big cock.

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