Any advice on how to dominate a man in the bedroom?

He gets turned on by the idea but I can’t quite figure out what to do.

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  • The two of you need to discuss what your limits are before starting anything.


    What you do exactly is up to you. You can do things like tie him up. Use restraints on wrists, and ankles. Things like sucking/licking on nipples, chest, body anywhere, neck, mouth, feet, etc. Teasing can be part of the play.

    Then, it goes up to dick, ass, whips, toys, flogging, whatever you guys want and feel.

    You can escalate to fetish play, spit, fucking, if that’s what you’re in the mood.


    It's important to remember that any sexual activity should always involve enthusiastic and ongoing consent from all parties involved.


    However, if you and your partner are both comfortable and enthusiastic about exploring domination/submission dynamics in the bedroom, communication and consent are key. Here are some tips that can help you get started:


    1. Have a conversation: Before engaging in any sexual activity, have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and expectations. Discuss what you both want to try and establish a safe word or signal to use if either of you feels uncomfortable or wants to stop.


    2. Start small: If you're new to domination, start with small acts of dominance, such as taking control during foreplay or asking your partner to perform a specific act. Gradually build up to more intense acts of dominance as you and your partner become more comfortable.


    3. Explore power exchange: Domination is often about power exchange, where the dominant partner has control over the submissive partner. This can involve physical acts, such as restraining your partner or giving orders, as well as psychological acts, such as verbal humiliation or role-playing.


    4. Be aware of your partner's physical and emotional state: As the dominant partner, it's important to pay attention to your partner's physical and emotional state throughout the experience. Check in with them regularly to ensure they're comfortable and enjoying themselves.


    Remember, domination is not about hurting or degrading your partner but about exploring power dynamics in a consensual and respectful way. Always prioritize communication, consent, and safety in any sexual activity you engage in.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Try bondage, or role-playing. Tie him to a bed. Stick your toes in his mouth. Smother his face in your breasts. Smack his ass and make him say things like, "Yes, mam." Like, "Are you a good bad boy?"
    Put your pussy in his face and make him eat you out and tell him to lick you because he's been a bad boy and that's what bad boys do. I'm a freak, I know, lol. A lot of guys like stuff like that though, and if he's OK with being dominated, he's probably OK with that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well normally I am his sub but we tried it changed one time. I was bad in making him obey but guys have weakpoints you can use to your advantage. On the more important part: talk together about your more specific likes, because no two doms are the same. Also if the dom part is not for you than its not going to work out.

    Domming can range from teasing, just taking controle in sex, to punishments, to complete controle and a lot in between.

  • Be on top and do what you want. Be as sexy and confident as you want. Say it clearly when you want him to do something, compliment him if he's doing a good job, everything will follow.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I can tell you how to do it there's many many ways and you don't even have to dominate you just have to be you I mean I can tell you you could do tonight they will send him through the roof but I just got done answering a whole bunch of questions let me know if you want me to tell you because I'll tell you the whole in details the whole thing what to do and you will melt him

  • I'm sure when you get aroused you'll know exactly what to do.

  • Just make him your slave. Let him do to you what you want. Try being more selfish

  • Plenty but I'd prefer DM

  • Pick positions where you are in control of the rhythm and stimulation

  • I’m a submissive man can give you some hints message me

  • Have you thought to cuck him?

  • Well all Men are very different just like all Women so its something u have to figure out as u are together over time.
    God Bless

  • Give him orders

  • Hold a knife to his cock

  • Make him kiss your feet and be rough on his nipples and his dick and balls squeeze them bite, lightly hit. Boss him around is he doesn't do it how you wish punish him lol

  • Tie him up and do whatever you like to do. Take advantage

  • Peg him with a strap on.

  • I don't know, never been with a guy who was into that.

  • Give him orders and work on using a confident tone to show you expect him to obey you. Make him strip for you and do subservient things like massage and kiss your feet and give you oral.

  • Put your fingers in your pussy, then put them in his mouth and say, "Yeah taste that pussy you little bitch. Does it taste good? Good boy, suck it all off"