Any advice or opinion?

My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months. We are both 18 and we have been discussing possibly having sex soon. We are also both virgins. I’m ready to have sex but I’m nervous. My boyfriend is an extremely sweet guy so I know he’s probably never say anything. But I’m really nervous about my breasts. In my teens years I went through a lot of depression, crash course dieting, and weight loss + weight gain.
Which I believe this is why but I have really saggy breasts. I’m extremely insecure about them and hate to look at them. Could my breasts cause him to not be attracted to me or be turned off?
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  • Oh my god no!! I don't even need to know your boyfriend or anything more about him to be able to answer this question with 100% confidence.

    He is a virgin. He is a good-enough guy to be "discussing the possibility" of having sex with his girlfriend of 7 months.

    That's ALL I need to know to be able to tell you that there is ZERO chance that he is going to be turned off or in ANY WAY not attracted to you.

    First of all, any guy losing his virginity is AT LEAST as nervous and insecure about it as you are. He will be more concerned with what YOU think of HIM than he will be looking for flaws in you.

    More important than that. He doesn't care if your breasts are saggy. He cares that they're YOUR breasts, and that you're comfortable enough with him to let him see them (and play with them). I can guarantee you that there will be no part of him that's 'turned off'. Quite the opposite.

    A guy having sex with a girl he really cares about... is about the least critical creature you could imagine. He is not in any way thinking about your body's imperfections; he's just loving the fact that you're willing to share it with him.

    Any of the judgmental, superficial typical "locker-room talk" bullshit... is never ever a guy saying something about a girl he cares about. It's usually not even a guy talking about someone he USED to care about (an ex-girlfriend). Usually, it's guys talking about some girl they have zero feelings for.

    Even guys who are generally superficial pigs, are no longer judgmental when it comes to a girl they truly care about. In those cases, whatever body that girl happens to have IS the perfect body. It's beautiful. No guy is ever looking at the breasts of a girl he cares about, and wishing they were different.

    I know it sounds like some cheesy bullshit, but it's true. Universally. That is true of any guy anywhere.

    The only time a guy is going to be judgmental is if he is having sex with a girl he doesn't have feelings for. If the emotions aren't there, then judgmental asshole ARE indeed judgmental assholes.

    You really need to get this worry RIGHT OUT of your head. I don't give a damn what your breasts look like. You do NOT need to worry about this. AT ALL.

  • They can't be that saggy at only 18. I wouldn't worry about it. If he really loves you, he will accept you the way you are. If I were in his position, I would be excited.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No. He will love your body. I would encourage you to let him see it and trust that he loves it. Start with low light first.

  • If he's with you now, uhhh no. Guys are not going to stop sex for saggy breast

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  • If he loves you, he won't give a damn about your breasts. Beside he's also a virgin, so he's also insecure if he could please you with his body.

  • Eww.

    • dont do it/

  • If he loves you, he will love you for who you are, everything about you. if he love you he will never mind what kind of body you have so think positive and don't let insecurities swallow you.