Any subs on here? If so, why do you like to submit?

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  • Generally I dominate, but sometimes there's a blue moon and I like to sub. Honestly it's the lack of pressure, thinking, of having to do anything but simply obey and drift further and further into subspace.

    It can be a quite sublime feeling when you want to let go of the control and truly just drift through it for a while. Honestly whether I come or not is just the punctuation mark on that feeling, is it a. or ! ending. The difficulty is in finding someone who can gradually raise the pain and keep it maintained at a level and pace to maintain that state of mind for as long as possible.

    It also makes you want to become better at dominating after having an experience like that. To spread such sublime happiness with what skills you possess to those you love dearly and give you love back.

    Ahh, sorry, got too caught up for a moment there... think I'm drooling a little lol

    • No, that was amazing. Thank you

  • There's something incredibly sexy about a confident woman. Especially when she knows what she wants in terms of sexuality. When you add to that confidence a level of trust in a relationship I find it very sexy when sex becomes about her pleasure and her amusement.

    If you want more than that you can DM me...

    • I respect you.

    • Thanks. That actually means a lot.

    • Really? Why?

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  • I usually wouldn't be I enjoy it. I find it exciting especially cause I don't like to submit anywhere else

  • I'm actually a switch, but what I like about being sub is pain and being under control.

    • Why do you find pleasure in pain?

    • I don't know, it just turns me on more and it feels like facing my fears

    • Ok...

  • I'm not exactly a sub, but am very easy going and would just as soon let her have her way.

    • You can PM me (if you can, that is) is you want to discuss it further.

    • RESPONSE TO UPDATE: I know.

    • What?

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  • submit in what way?

  • I like to make them submit

    • And you're in India! That's fascinating!

    • Girl, YES!

    • I'm not a girl... :)

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  • I’m not hardcore, but it turns me on being told what to do in a sexual sense if I like the person

    • Verbal control

    • @knight2468 yes.

    • The best

  • Yes. I'm a sub. I like it because its great to have her as the dom. A dominant woman is fun in bed as she takes control, knows what she wants and what works for us. Outside the bedroom its good because she can handle certain situations better than me and she's got a mind of her own so i trust her with some important decisions too. I'm a sub but at the same time its important that i'm respected too.

    • As you should be. Submission doesn't mean you're weak nor is it a free pass to be disrespected.

    • @missy52 exactly! Thanks :)

  • All the Subs I admire you and I know why, because you get treated like a queen and teased till you pop.. well among a few things.. they are just sweet. I need one again

  • Well I'm a switch. So it the joy of giving up my power and control. It nice to be treated like a fuck toy once and while. Where I have no say, no imput.

    It dont happen enough. So I begin to crave it. I dont always want to be the Dom

    • You should have say and input into what's happening to you, less it be rape. Butttttt I get what you're saying. The full submission of your control to another excites you. Trusting someone is an aphrodisiac.

    • Yeah, you get it. I want the other side for a change.

  • I love it when I guy takes control of my sexually

  • Im submissive. I want only to eat women out without getting anything in return. I don't know why.

    • Interesting

  • Submissivness isn't for me as a man. I would feel emasculated. I only submit to God, both of my parents, grandma, and boss at work.

    • I can respect that but it can also be liberating.

    • For you as a woman, yes. Men aren't to be submissive.

    • Hell no. Shit thinking like that is why women get raped and killed by their spouses at disproportionate rates. For you as a terrible and insecure man, you believe that women should be submissive so that you can selfishly do whatever you want without consideration of a woman's wants. Damn, I had thought you were cool.

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  • i love confident girls who initiate things in bed. but I am dom

    • I respect that.

    • Why are you dom?

    • I am switch but more on dom side. its hot

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  • Are you asking women?

    • No. Everyone

    • i don't know too many men who are subs

    • I do. There are a lot more than you pay attention to

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  • I like to submit only sexually because I'm dominant in other aspects of life, I like to give the girl control over me in the bedroom.

    • That would be an awesome balance to find.

    • I agree, it's a turn on as well :P

  • I don't know what a sub is. Like a sandwich?

    • Submissive

    • Sexual preference... bdsm...

    • oh i dont have sex. Im a virgin until marriage.

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  • I can be sub occasionally but I prefer the variety of switching things around tbh

  • Dom/switch but lean more towards dom.

  • I would be a sub, I have had a stronger woman before and she dominated me.

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