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  • You have to understand there's a many different types of people in this world

    The busy Bodies are always going to have something negative to say because either somebody has treated them that way or they just don't like themselves so you can't listen to those people

    You have to understand there's always going to be somebody that's jealous they envy or they're just haters and they're going to try to bring you down to their level because they don't have confidence they're going to try to make it so you don't

    So whatever anybody says don't listen to them let It go they're just trying to get a rise out of you

    Two things in this world to make you love yourself to be happy to be a giver of self the moment that you turn negative about anything you start depleting your body chemistry you start sending chemicals rushing through it and that takes away from who you truly are if you always happy if you're smart if you can smile if you are a giver of your heart if you try to help people if you talk nice to people those are all positives and that will build your confidence because that's who you are and people will see that and understand it and people will want to be just like you just remember no matter what there's always going to be somebody talking crap about you don't listen to it let it go ignore it the moment you let it in is the moment you start thinking about it and take you down a different path you are in control of your path and you are the only one in control of it I mean the best advice that I could give you we're supposed to become one with ourselves.
    And love ourselves as one
    Love others as one
    Become one with the universe
    If you can do that and if you understand then the universe has your back no matter what you do that is powerful that is beautiful you cannot lose when the universe has your back if you can understand that you can have anything in this world you want

Most Helpful Guy

  • It might sound silly, but whenever you come across something that made you feel good about yourself, write it down, whether with pencil (or pen) and paper, or in a note/text file on your phone or computer. And put/save these in the same place. And every time it happens, write it/save it again. And periodically, just view the notes/files again to make you feel better about yourself. Over time, the notes/files will grow to a large amount of confidence boosters. And if you're ever feeling insecure, go read some of them. If you're about to go on a date or something, go read some. This is what I do and it works great.

Most Helpful Girl

  • 1. Take care of your physical appearance and practice good hygiene.
    2. Believe in yourself and be proud of your accomplishments, even the small ones.
    3. Push yourself out of your comfort zone and try new things.
    4. Make a list of all your positive traits and focus on them.
    5. Surround yourself with positive people and cut off any negative influences.
    6. Practice positive self-talk and replace any negative thoughts with positive ones.
    7. Remind yourself that failure is an opportunity to learn and try again.

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  • I don't really have an honest answer but I say, be yourself. If it's a guy you're interested in, just be yourself and start small and go little by little

  • Yes! Fake it till you make it.

    This is gonna sound weird and it's gonna feel weird in the beginning, but when you're around people, visualize yourself as someone super important and powerful.
    Like you're the President of the United States or something, and how would you act if that's really who you were?
    Put yourself in that mindset and internalize it.
    That's what politicians do when they're running for office and it works

    • You would move slowly with your shoulders back and your head up. You'd speak softly, but with with a direct tone, and you'd be ready for damn near anything 👍

  • sure, the doors of confidence that grows when you stop giving a doodoo will surprise you

  • Put yourself out there. Be the first to raise your hand and voluntary to do things first.

  • Whatever you are, own it. Be friendly and kind. If you do that, you will attract your tribe. You don't have to be friends with everybody

  • Gain experience. Do something over and over again and you will gain confidence

  • Stop caring what other people think, do, and say.

  • All you have to do is look in the mirror your a beautiful young lady remember that and just be yourself and I promise you'll be fine

  • more confident in what?

  • Fake it till you make it

  • love yourself.