Any tips for giving head for the first time?

I’m mostly worried about my gag reflex acting up. I’ve been trying to work on desensitizing it but it’s still really bad.

Thanks for any advice!
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Honestly, just relax.
    I know that's easier said than done but it's the best advice I can give.

    Don't worry about deep throating at first, work up to it. Focus on the head of his dick, twirl your tongue around it, and use your hand to jerk off what you can't fit in your mouth if you feel like being more aggressive.
    Take breaks to kiss and lick the base of his dick, and move your lips and tongue up and down it from the side.

    Just relax, and don't feel the need to go further than you're comfortable going. And don't let him push you. Just keep in mind that his dick is between your teeth. You are in control there. Lol

    • Haha thanks so much!

    • No worries! I have a lot of experience so if you've got any questions feel free to ask. XD

Most Helpful Guys

  • Lots of tongue especially on the frenulum. Tight lips but not teeth. Lick the balls. Use a twisting hand action on the shaft. Hold the skin tight at the base of the shaft. You'll learn how deep to take him without gagging. He'll understand. Communication is also important. If you want him to cum in your mouth tell him so he's not worrying about pulling out. Don't stop sucking and stroking until after a full ejaculation e. g. don't stop after the first squirt. Also tell him if you want to swallow in case that's a turn-off for him. Squeeze out the last drops of cum from the dick afterwards and lick it.

  • If you combine your hands with your mouth you will probably enjoy it more and if you follow his breathing and reactions in general you can make it just as good, even better. Keep in mind that the head of his cock is the most sensitive area and if you have him in your mouth and he's sufficiently wet from your saliva a twisting motion with your hand around the head of his hard on will feel divine to him. Some girls spend a lot of time on the shaft which is not really a sensitive area. If you have any more questions feel free to ask

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  • Ask him how he likes it before u start.

    Let him know ur doing it for the first time.

    Just do it how u think its done and learn my doing.

    Dont bite it off.

  • Guys like it when we gag on their dicks.

  • you gonna puke on his duke 😂

    • That’s what I’m afraid of 😂😂

    • thats gonna be messy, well goodluck 😂👌

    • Ty ty

  • Take it slow, make it wet and sloppy (saliva and spit), so it will slide easier in your mouth. lick, kiss and suck the penis. And don't forget the balls. Stoke them with your hand, squeeze it a little bit, lick and suck the balls. Practice makes perfect.

  • Learn to ask a guy what he likes ahead of time

  • don't bite down

  • Don't bite... lol ;)

  • Gagging can be a huge turn on so even if you gag don’t assume it’s a bad thing. If you gag ans keep on going with enthusiasm it is extremely hot!

  • The sensitivity of a man is the area in back of his cock head.
    Just lick the tip, so you don’t gag.
    Guys like you to play with his balls too!

  • You just need to suck it and see 🤣🤣🤣

  • relax and just enjoy it take it slow please ask him to wash his nuts before you go down on him

  • Take it slow the first time you don't have to stick it all the way in the first time use your hands a little bit and have to