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  • Eating out, licking out, cunnilingus, oral sex: whatever you call it, it is ultimate pleasure for girls. It is the most reliable way to give her a big O. Most girls require clitoral stimulation in order to have an orgasm, and oral sex puts the clit front and center. Most guys did not hear the word "clitoris" in school (while speaking dirty with friends) and so clit often gets ignored in mainstream penetration-focused sex plays. There are plenty of ways and techniques for oral sex trying different positions, using your tongue and fingers in unique ways to up your game.

    Instead of diving head-first into her pussy like an Olympic swimmer, opt for a seductive warm up. Start with kisses, sucking her breasts and nipples, move down to her belly, inner thighs, and all around the vulva. Bring in a feather tickler to run all over her body and up and down the labia. Girls love this simple one trick. The anticipation help bring you both into your bodies and feel grounded in this experience you are sharing together, it deserves reverence and respect. Lighter is better when you start giving oral. The clitoral glans are hell sensitive, so be mindful of going too hard. Clitorises and vulvas usually require different degrees of firmness when it comes to touching and licking. It should not look like a hungry puppy eating their bowl of kibble.

    If you are masturbating with a firm grip on your penis, do not employ this same technique when giving oral to your girl, gently tease her clit lightly so it feels like she has stepped off a magical cloud into a hot Icelandic spring, so go easy! When you start lighter, you can build up the pressure as her arousal builds, but always go lighter first. Use your flat tongue and head for added pressure first, more your head instead of your tongue. The key is to warm up the entire vulva area before going for the glans clitoris. One of the main things that stop girls from having orgasms during oral is the fear that they are “taking too long” or being “selfish.” So they need a lot of encouragement from you. Let her know that you are there for as long as it takes, this is just about her pleasure, and there is no pressure to come. One thing that most girls find a big mood killer is pressure from her partner to come.

    Showing interest in what brings her pleasure is a huge turn-on. Every girl's body is different, and they enjoy being stimulated in a variety of ways. Ask her what she wants you to do to them. If she is not sure, try touching her in different ways and encourage her to tell you what she feels good. It definitely makes for most girls sparkling dirty talk. Ask and then do exactly what she says. Mouth is not the only tool in your kit, try your tongue around the clitoris and insert your fingers into her vagina, if she enjoys penetration. Mindfulness during oral sex is the best tip you could ever receive. Pay attention to where your tongue ACTUALLY is on her body.

  • ask her what she likes, every girl is different. If you've looked up p*rn try finding amateur videos to study, its not hard just focus on the anatomy and her enjoyment. She'll likely direct you, think of it as eating ice cream (don't bite just lick and take your time exploring)

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  • Uh no idea, never given it.

  • Focus on clit unless she indicates otherwise

    start off circling it slowly and teasingly with your tongue

  • The clit is like a nipple suck and lick there the hole is for fingers but a lick or 2 wouldn’t harm

  • Start by rubbing the clit, everything will get back into place.