Any tips on having sex for the first time when you are insecureabout your body?

Question

So my boyfriend and I are ready to take our relationship to the next level, but I'm a bit insecure about my body... I don't know if he is into outties, so I'm mostly nervous about that fact. Does that even matter or should I be insecure about being an outtie?

PrudentGuy · Accepted Answer

I'm a guy and I think I would disagree with the only girl so far, who suggested sending a pic.

No. In fact I never send nor ask for nudes because we never know if the relationship will last.

And I agree with the guy who wrote about confidence.

Yes, in my opinion, sexual confidence is #1 turn on. Hence learn to be such a person.

1) keep the lights on, but your clothes off. This will make him a very happy guy.

I know, because I'm a guy. And as guys, we just like to see a naked girl.

2) since he agreed to have sex, he already likes a big part of you.

If you want, ask him which parts of your lower body he likes. You'll be surprised he has a lot more to say that you thought.

3) And when we have sex, we look forward to penetration and orgasm. Looks at this point usually fades into insignificance.

Hence be assured and confident, that you're "good enough". And nevermind the moles and stretch marks. He won't care when he's inside you. I'm sure of that because I'm a guy. 😁😁😁

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

It matters not. Just go for it. You'll both be so turned on that it'll just happen.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you're really worried about it, send him a pic. If he calls it all off, then you'll know. I'm sure it will just fine, but since you're worried, it might be better if he knows in advance.

josephinelcajon · Answer

Turn the lights off pitch black its soooooo much fun and will build your confidence

lonliestmanalive · Answer

Outtie? Like your vagina? Or your bellybutton

Wiredone · Answer

Don't be insecure about your body. No woman's body is the same. A lot of women have outies. I think it's sexy. If he loves you he will love you regardless of any imperfections you might have. Your personality is what counts.

Twalli · Answer

He will like seeing you naked. Guys really like seeing girls naked.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

He is your boyfriend he like you no matter what stop over thinking it

Valnac · Answer

It’s what you were born with, be proud of it. It’s part of your femininity and your sexuality. That’s what makes you, you!

locutus9999 · Answer

Look... your insecurities are from the way you perceive your body... not the way he perceived. are not the same... believe me. so love yourself and take care. If you feel to insecure... try lights off. But really undertand he see you different than you see yourself.