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Any tips on how to give deeper head without choking?

I'm pretty new to doing it still but am managing fairly well for the most part - especially considering his size. The issue comes in when he gets more eager and starts holding my head and trying to force it deeper. I've been trying to focus on breathing through my nose but, for whatever reason, I'm unable to inhale through it while giving a blowjob and just end up choking.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Just wanted to thank everyone for the suggestions! Also wanted to clarify that he doesn’t make me do anything I don’t want to do - it was my fault for wording it that way. He pulls out if I really start gagging and asks if I’m okay. I think he just gets a little too excited during it sometimes.
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  • First of all, let him know that that's not allowed. Make him put his hands behind his back or something. But shoving you down his cock or effectively choking you is not okay. Putting his hand on yout head is fine but I feel like you might be traumatized from that. You need to practice your gag reflex which is honestly as simple as constantly doing it and slowly going deeper and deeper.

    You could also lay at the end of the bed with your head hanging off the bed and let him thrust into you. you can control the thrust by putting your hands at his knees or his thighs and controling the motion. The thrusts will allow him to go deeper and that angle exposes more of your throat. Your head will be upsidedown though so you might get busy. Just slow him down physically by pushing him away. Remind him that though you want to please him, you need to be alive to do so and tell him that forcing you causes you pain. Also, force is just generally gross.

    • That what I said he sounds like asshole I would not give it someone again if that did that to me

  • Tuck your tongue downwards almost like you're making a swallowing motion to eliminate resistance. Also, ask him not to try and control the motion for the first little while until you get used to it.

    Another rather gross tip is to stop trying to be "clean" when you do it. If you slobber: slobber. Let everything got messy and wet, no matter how gross you think it is, the lubrication makes it much easier. Too many times girls will worry that saliva is icky and not cute, but a lot of dudes like it.

    • So true with the saliva 😉

    • @EstevanMadrid898 Don't wink at me weirdy.

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  • A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.

    Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.

    And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.

    Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.

    Also, look into videos for:

    A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
    B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).

    That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
    I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.

  • Practice. You aren't going to be able to inhale while it's in your throat, though. You have to hold your breath for it.

  • Ok so I haven't given any blowjobs but when I brush my tongue it tends to trigger my gag reflex a lot. If I try to keep pushing my tongue on the bottom of my mouth it helps to stop that. Might help you with your problem, I dunno though.

  • If you don't like him holding your head tell him to not do it. A good guy will respect your wishes. Also, keep one or both hands on the shaft so you can control the depth better. The best BJs I had are where the focus is on the first couple of inches.

  • Just try and breathe through I'm if it gets to be too much for me, i hold my breath when i go all the way down on it and hold it there, holding my breath seems to help lessen my gag reflex

  • If you like oral creampies / throatpies. Wait until he's ready to cum then try to move your head further towards him forwardly while he's finishing in your mouth.

  • You just need to practice a lot lol

    • Do you like him doing that to you?

  • If he try’s to hold your head, tell him to stop it if he wants you to go on.
    Try licking and sucking just the head while you fondle his balls and deeply moaning. Any guy would die for that.

  • try sticking your tongue out as far as you can, that opens up your throat, don't worry it does not "Look" weird... and it feels great. as far as gagging, you build up resistance to that, so... suck a lot of cocks

  • Do you really like it

  • Just tell him not to push your head down and u want to go at your own pace

  • Keep practicing maybe try it with a dildo when he's not around
    At the end of the day it's not a big deal if you can't take all of him

  • Just don't do it.

  • Are you two married?

  • He sounds like a total dick I have never had someone do that to me

  • A guy friend of mine told me that men feel nothing in the shaft, just the head, balls and behind the balls. So basically, watching us choke on their D’s is just hot to watch, and they wanna feel the back of your throat BUT you can still focus on the head. Not everyone is made for deep throating, and that is fiiine. Play with his balls, lick the back of his head and shaft, get some hand work going and boom.

    • lol wait you talk to your guy friends about sucking dick? i need friends like u haha. how did this come (or cum lol) up in conversation?

    • Yep! We’re just really comfortable with eachother and asking those “awkward” questions that we wanna know about the opposite sex lol. And it’ll just randomly come up in conversation, usually if one of us has a new partner.😌

    • wow sounds fun lol. i feel like this is gonna lead to his penis in your mouth edventually haha. its not uncommon for girls to give their guy friends head

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