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Anyone else ashamed to be straight?

I've found over the last few years that I'm more and more ashamed to be attracted to women. I can't help being attracted to women, but social media has made me feel like I'm gross for finding women attractive. I don't cat-call, I don't look at underage females, and I try hard not to even look at women in public because I'm afraid that I'll come across as creepy.

Even just finding women attractive makes me feel ashamed since I feel like I'm part of a problem.

And I see women talking about how they are begrudgingly attracted to men, or they apologize for being so gross as to be attracted to men.

So, as a straight guy who doesn't find men at all sexually arousing, I feel like I should still do what I can to get that D because even finding my wife attractive is being a gross guy.

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  • Your problem should be clearly obvious, but you've allowed yourself to be so brainwashed you can't see the forest for the trees:

    You've been consuming crazy left-leaning social media which has you all confused about something that you should be completely confident about. This is NOT an accident or mistake - it's quite intentional. If they can get you to believe that being straight (which is completely normal and fine) is a bad thing, then they can get you to believe anything, and more importantly, they can get you to DO anything - including vote for or send money to specific people, or protest, or groom others, or detach from your family and friends, or whatever else.

    They are using cult brainwashing techniques on you, and you are gobbling it up, at the expensive of your own health and sanity.

    The answer is to GET OFF SOCIAL MEDIA and go outside into the real world, where most of that crap that you've gotten a head-full of doesn't even exist. You're mostly listening to far-left college student that are in the depths of the cult, or occasionally one of their leaders (AOC, Kamila Harris, etc.). They want you to believe that gender and race-related stuff is the biggest problem in the world today - but that world only exists on Twitter and TikTok. Go outside. Go to the park. Go to the grocery store. Go to the gas station. Go to the bank.

    What you'll see is people of all colors, all genders, all races, and all economic levels getting along just fine - no drama at all. Twitter would have you believe there's a hot war going on right outside your door, but unless you live in a left-run big city that's been sold out to criminals (NYC, Baltimore, Detroit, Chicago, San Francisco, Portland, Seattle, etc.), that's just not the case. Go outside and see for yourself.

    And once you realize there's a massive gap between the ACTUAL world and the world that Twitter and TikTok have been describing to you, you'll understand that you've been getting played. They've been using you as an NPC - a bot, a drone - to do their bidding, by controlling your brain with cultist brainwashing. But you can walk away from it by just getting off your phone, and paying attention to the real world around you.

    Your mental health will improve, you won't be constantly angry and upset and scared and confused, and eventually you'll realize that you can now see through the propaganda - much like Neo being able to comprehend the Matrix.

  • Nope, straight is who I am, and there is nothing to be ashamed of for being you.
    This is just the latest hip and trendy bandwagon to come along, so people are jumping on it.
    Soon there will be another cause to come along and this one will just fade away like so many others.
    My niece is like that.
    What ever the cause is she is all over it, until the next one happens.
    Then it's like save what?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah, interesting question. I am ashamed at being attracted to men, as the way men are so picky about ensuring that the women they go out with are as feminine looking as possible, it makes me think, gee, is there something so repulsive about male features that I'm not realizing? If more so masculine looking women aren't good enough for men, then why should masculine looking men be good enough for women? That's why I tend to want to go out with feminine looking men with blonde hair, just to ensure everyone plays fair.

    • A really interesting perspective!

  • Being attracted to women isn’t gross.


    Being OBSESSED with women is what’s gross.


    Can you see an attractive woman walking in the street without getting an erection?


    Can you speak to an attractive woman without saying something inappropriate?


    Can you sit next to an attractive woman without feeling tempted to touch her?


    If you answered yes to all 3, you are NOT part of the problem.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I think you've spent too much time reading rubbish on the internet, and are now believing it.

  • Honestly, you shouldn't be ashamed for being attracted what you like. The only problem are people who FORCE themselves onto others, in which case, it's that specific individual who is problematic, not their sexuality. Thoss "hetrophobic" people online are probably just woke idiots who are going to die alone.

    • @letuswaltzforthedead, this is really well said.

  • Nah, that's just you, dawg.

  • I don’t know anyone who shares your thoughts dude. Can’t be ashamed to like what you like

  • Not ashamed at all. That's who I am. Not going to make others feel ashamed for who they are and I'm not ashamed about me.

  • Nope I like liking men

  • Hahahaha!!!

  • Nope, I'm perfectly happy being straight.

    There isn't any "problem" to be a part of. A small minority of people simply hate sexuality or heterosexuality because they are gay or religious or sjw retards.

    Some people like to turn normal things into social problems because everything offends them, the rest of us meanwhile are retaining our sanity.

  • Shouldn’t you be out somewhere protesting on a corner holding a BLM sign or against Jordan Peterson

    • Actually I'd rather not be in that camp. But thanks for reminding me why I'm not in the other one either.

  • No, I like being straight and don't feel gross

    • I'm really glad!

  • D- on the troll effort

    • Not a troll, but thanks for deminishing my admission and attempt to not feel entirely alone about this with your internet bs.

  • Another deranged question duh

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